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Father Issues (2nd of 3)

In my last post, I ended saying, “In a day when so many of us long for a return to family values, it is disappointing to discover that a good dad is hard to find in the Bible.”

But maybe this is a disappointment that can work in our favor.

A Different Kind of Father

A woman I know told me that she turned to the Father in heaven looking for a parent who was different from her biological father. She echoed the hope of the songwriter David, who wrote, “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me” (Psalm 27:10).

David repeated the idea that God is a “Father to the fatherless” in another song (Psalm 68:5), but it was Jesus who gave us the most personal understanding of the Father in heaven.

The Father of Jesus

Scripture doesn’t tell us much about the relationship between Jesus and Joseph, the man who married Jesus’ mother and raised Jesus as his son.

Instead, even at the age of 12, Jesus is found relating to His eternal Father. After staying behind in Jerusalem following the Feast of the Passover, Jesus said to Mary and Joseph, “Why did you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?” (Luke 2:49).

Years later when Jesus went public at about the age of 30, He talked a lot about the Father. He told His disciples that He had come to bring them to His Father who was speaking and working through Him (John 14:8-11). When one of them asked Him to show them the Father, He said, “He who has seen Me has seen the Father” (v.9). Then, as He was about to complete the work that He said His Father had given Him to do, Jesus told His friends that He was leaving to prepare a place for them in His Father’s house (John 14:2). He said, “I am going to the Father, for My Father is greater than I” (John 14:28).

From all that Jesus says about His Father, it’s clear that He wants us to love and trust His Father as He does.

So now, what are you thinking?

Don’t feel limited by the following. But here are some questions I’d like to hear some comments on:

In what ways does it help or not help you to see that to know Jesus is to know the Father?

What if any danger do you see in identifying the Son so closely with the Father?


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6 Responses to “Father Issues (2nd of 3)”

  1. Trinity1 says:

    I lost my father at a very young age (5 yrs)and was touched deeply by His word when I read that He is a Father of the fatherless. I remember after recently getting saved that I read that in His Word and I remember saying to myself – that is me, He is my Father now.

  2. westhorp says:

    My question is how do you move that promise that “I Have A Father” from my head to my heart? I realize that faith is key.

    Is it just a matter of grabbing hold of those promises every time you feel the need? Is that enough to fill that hole from a human father absence?

    I know the pain of being without an earthly father. I’ve agonized and sometimes still do with that absence and lack of identity.

    Can anybody relate to having the need for the respect and affirmation of a father figure?

    In my life, I’ve flipped that coin. I have two adult kids. They know me as their dad and I’ve been part of their lives. I praise God for that. My “daddy hunt” is over.

    But, it either is just starting or continues for lots of others.

    Any comments and insights would be appreciated. I’ll link to it on my blog and share them.

  3. martdehaan says:

    I would also like to hear what others have to say about this. Trinity1 in the earlier post seems to have sensed this truth deeply.

  4. ajacks says:

    ajacks
    In prison ministry when you ask a large group (300-500) of male inmates: “How many here had their father tell them they would end up in prison?” Usually, 90-95% of the inmates raise their hands. It’s like they fulfilled their Dad’s prophecy! Yet, it is interesting how few Orthodox Jewish males are incarcerated; about 1 person per 5-9 prisons! I believe the difference is as Jewish male children they participated in Sabots ever Friday night and especially at Passovers where they have a definite role to play in the celebration! Also because of the family togetherness setting where as a young impressionable child they had a definite part in the celebrations that was meaningful. They were treated special, had a definite part to play, the family recognized them as important, and their involvement was weekly. It’s loving them by counting on them.

  5. mpoteet says:

    In what ways does it help or not help you to see that to know Jesus is to know the Father?

    It helps, particularly in remembering the strengths of the Trinity – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

    What if any danger do you see in identifying the Son so closely with the Father?

    We need to remember that in accepting Christ as our Savior, we are saved. That is one of the main points in the Bible that strongly distinguishes the New Testament from the Old Testament. Our relationship with Jesus is critical in its importance.

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