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Mental Health (Backstory)

I appreciate those who are responding to my last post with their own honest questions about, or experience with, mental health issues.

Before continuing with the second of three parts on this subject, I want to give you some of the backstory to my own interest.

In a December, 06 article I wrote,

“Soon after our marriage, my wife and I were faced with the needs of a family member whose inner world was deeply troubled.

Sometimes this loved one heard voices no one else could hear. Sometimes there were fears that the government was spying on her through her television set. Sometimes she accused us of trying to kill her.

For a while she lived in our home. On other occasions she was able to care for herself in government-subsidized housing. More than once she ran away in an attempt to avoid a world that frightened her.

With the help of local mental health services, we did everything we knew how to do. Through it all, we loved and laughed and prayed. Sometimes she went to church with us. One Sunday evening, she expressed a desire to accept Christ as her Savior. For a while, her state of mind improved. But within a few months the voices and hallucinations returned.

Over time, we developed a deep appreciation for the doctors, mental health community, and social workers who helped us. On occasion, we needed the help of law enforcement officers and judges to help us obtain involuntary admission to a mental health facility, or we needed the oversight of a financial conservator. Her troubled life ended in a state hospital.

In the middle of our experience, we became aware of other church and neighborhood families who were also dealing with similar heartbreak. They too were praying for spiritual help, while reading mental health literature for medical answers.

If you are interested in the rest of that article, you can find it at:

BTA December, 06 http://www.rbc.org/bible-study/been-thinking-about/2006/12/01/column.aspx



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4 Responses to “Mental Health (Backstory)”

  1. MRSMMSMITH says:

    Thanks for talking about this subject a lot of people try to avoid the whole “mentally ill” subject. I myself have never had depression so bad where I have heard other voices but I am women and christian enough to admit that times do get rough and I do feel deepresed and overwhelmed, but thanks be to God I have always made it through those temporary dark periods in my life. May God Bless you for all that you do.

  2. Lilypons says:

    As I read what you’ve written, I ponder a question that will not leave me alone regarding my sister. In her youth, she was counseled by the pastor in our church, accepted Christ as her Savior and was baptized. Later in her teens and early adult years it became clear that she was deeply mentally disturbed…no voices, etc. In later years she was diagnosed with a “chemical imbalance” and has been on medications ever since.

    With that background given, during her mental illness, her life took a turn which is baffling and destructive. No, not what you might think…no drugs…no booze. She’s incredibly brilliant. I understand brilliant folks look for acceptance and understanding in unexpected places. She was associating herself with a group which revels in and relives the 15th century. Part of that was religion in the form of paganism. She is now firmly in the midst of the Wicken culture…believing in multiple Gods and Goddesses, ie. The Mother Earth. She feels as strongly about her “religion” as any Christian I’ve ever known. She’s known as a Wicken Priestess in many places and is highly…so say…revered. Was at one time in the Book of Women’s Who’s Who in America listed as a Wicken priestess.

    My blessed mother who is now 89 y/o has prayed for many, many years, that my sister return to belief in Christ in her own lifetime. I know God answers prayer and has all power to change people. What I ultimately want to know is:

    Since she was Saved in her youth, went through deep mental illness, during which time she began the Wicken association…will she go to Heaven when she dies? The power of once saved, always saved seems so final and sure, but the question of her turning away from Christianity is obviously troubling.

    I know there are a lot of questions and issues here, but please attempt to distill down to the basics…Christianity vs. Mental illness vs. a turn to Paganism. Where does that currently leave her eternal soul?

    Can you provide insight? Thank you and God Bless!

  3. Mart De Haan says:

    Thanks, Abigail, for your thoughtful response to Lilypons.

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