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Laughing til it Hurts

On a wall in our kitchen and dining room area hangs a painted board that says, “Live Simply, Laugh Often, Love Deeply.”

Unfortunately, a sign on the wall doesn’t assure that those who live under it will follow it’s counsel.

But this week, at least some of these words to live by seem especially appropriate with a visit from a sister-in-law from the East coast. When the two sisters get together some of life’s most embarrassing moments and royal mess-ups are told or retold once again as if they have morphed into such continuous laughter that we’re left gasping for air.

Ironically, neither sister has had an easy life. Yet, when you overhear them on the phone, or this week sitting together around the table, you sense that they’ve learned that the serious things in life leave a lot to laugh about– if we don’t take ourselves too seriously …

The laughs we’ve shared remind me of a stand up routine I heard years ago from the comedian Sinbad. If I remember right he was doing a college tour, telling stories on his family that resulted in continuous laughter from the audience that never stopped from one side-splitting line to the next.

And now… I find myself thinking, “Man, it feels so good to laugh.”

So, I wonder why the New Testament doesn’t describe our Teacher as laughing. We’re told that he groaned over Jerusalem, and that he cried after the death of his good friend Lazarus. But I don’t remember reading anything about his laughter.

What do you think? What would it be like to have Christ around the table for a week? Would we laugh– or just cry? Or is the question as mindless as a pre-recorded laugh track?


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16 Responses to “Laughing til it Hurts”

  1. hal.fshr says:

    Mart:

    Although there is not recorded reference to Christ laughing, it seems likely that He did. The reason for this is that Jesus of Nazareth is “perfect humanity, undiminished deity, united in one Person forever.” Since humor seems a celebrative side of a human response to life’s ironies, it would appear it is part of human nature. I think one of the best illustrations of Christ’s divine dignity and warm response to rational creatures is symbolized in the character of Aslan of the Narnia Chronicles. Much of the time the great lion is engaged in empathetic dialogue with others but on rare occasions we see him appreciating the humor of the moment. Thanks for raising the issue of laughter.

  2. pegramsdell says:

    I’m sure He laughs and I know He smiles. We were created for His pleasure, so I know He is pleased. (Sometimes) Also, we are made in His image and we laugh all the time. And we love and we cry and we get angry. I believe having Jesus around the table for a week would be awesome and unforgettable. I think we would cry at first and probably fall down on our faces in front of Him, but then when He touches us and smiles at us and sits down with us to supper, we will relax and just enjoy.

  3. BruceC says:

    I think He laughed. He cried, He shared sorrow with others,…all emotions. I know the Lord has a sense of humor; He created me! But I would tend to think His laughter was more from joy and not from the human humor we think of. What a wonderful Saviour we serve!

  4. djkeyboard says:

    I just spent the week in Detroit for a family funeral. I shared with people I hadn’t seen in 25 years, and also my cousins, their kids, extended family. My Uncle was a firm believer in Christ. In the midst of the loss, we laughed with each other at times until we wept. I was reminded that we “sorrow not as others” since we have the hope of the believer. Laughter expresses the joy of the heart, and we as believers should be the most joyful. My wife says part of the reason she married me was that I could make her laugh, and I still do. Although, perhaps sometimes AT me as well as WITH me…..lol.

  5. Niivam says:

    I believe our Saviour had a very good sense of humor. After all we were made in his image after his likeness.

  6. plumbape says:

    We associate laughter with fun and it’s usually not serious. Christ wanted to convey a very, very serious message in such a short period of time he probably sacrificed many times he would have enjoyed laughing. Or God’s word just doesn’t record those times. I know there are children in heaven and in our house they don’t miss the dinner table often so there would be laughter. I’m thinking during Christ’s ministry there may not have been many recorded times of laughing but when we can actually be with the Lord, it will be a fun filled time of laughter and joy like no other!! Praise the LORD!!

  7. Abate says:

    Jesus suffered so that we can laugh. That may be why we do not see anything about his laughter in the Bible. Nevertheless, in Psalms it says God laughs at the end…(Psalms 2:4 “He who sits in the heavens laughs, The Lord scoffs at them [i.e., evil ones who are against God].”

    Abate

  8. stormygirl says:

    I recently viewed two films…one on the Gospel of John, the other on the Gospel of Matthew. Both were incredibly true to the scriptures…I followed along with my Bible…found it all very fascinating. Two different actors portrayed Jesus very differently. Jesus in the Gospel of John was very serious most of the time, while Jesus in the Gospel of Matthew was much happier, smiling alot and, yes, laughing. I much prefered this Jesus…He made me feel good all over, which, of course, is what my Savior Jesus does!! I highly recommend both of these films and am looking forward to the film productions of the other two Gospels. I believe having breakfast with Jesus on the beach would have been the ultimate experience, but to have Him sitting at my dinner table? WOW

  9. poohpity says:

    I do not know about you but when I am moved with compassion it is not a tear I shed but a smile that comes across my face. When I tell my children something to benefit them and they follow my advice it is not a tear I shed but a smile I bare. I can just see Jesus telling Peter to step out of the boat and when he did I believe it was a smile as Peter walked on the water and then laughing when he started to sink because Jesus knew that He was there to catch Him, just as I did when my children began to walk and then stumbled it was a cheer and laughter I displayed to show them it was alright they did a good job at the attempt. How about the time the prostitute anointed Jesus feet with the expensive perfume and washed His feet with her tears, I believe His delight was so great I am sure there was laughter. Or the time the men dug a hole in the roof to lower their friend to Jesus I am sure He laughed in delight because of their faith. I know it does not say it but when I read these and other wonderful things in God’s word it brings a smile and laughter to my heart. I am just the creation and He said after creation behold it was very very good, that would bring laughter and a smile to anyone.

    So maybe it does say it we just miss it because of our own issues.

  10. daisymarygoldr says:

    “For everything there is a season….a time to laugh, a time to cry” (Ecc 3: 1, 3).

    Jesus’ brief life on earth marked a season that was acquainted with grief…for the dying and the destitute… for the sick and the suffering. Scripture refers to Him as the ‘man of sorrows’ but is silent about His laughter. As He went about doing His earthly ministry He must have been acutely aware of the agony that was awaiting Him at the cruel cross.

    In spite of having the knowledge of Him being forsaken by God (i.e. “dark night of the soul”), Jesus sported a joyous spirit to the point of being accused of partying with the wrong crowd. However, His eating and drinking was not for the same reasons the world engages in merry making but it was all about celebrating the return and restoration of the lost.
    Likewise, in John 15:11 He also wants us His followers to have the same joy and assures us with the promise “Blessed are you who weep now: for you shall laugh” (Luke 6:21).

    BTW, the question is not mindless by itself…but “laughing till it hurts” is one tough task to follow, immediately after being subjected to a weeping ordeal by the topics discussed here a couple of days ago. Am I blaming you? Yes, it was a-l-l your fault! Well, not really…I am yet to master the art of not to be so silly as to cry at the drop of a hat… especially on a blog. Hey! But I’m learning… and will soon get there someday. Glad you all got to have some good fun and laughter at your home:)

  11. Mart De Haan says:

    You’re all putting a smile on my face today. :-)

  12. chfranke says:

    “What would it be like to have Christ around the table for a week? Would we laugh– or just cry?”
    Love daisymarygoldr’s response. Sitting around the table is definitely a time to “laugh until it hurt(s),” especially if Peter or James or John were there too. It would be a time to remember.
    I’m sure when he was a kid he got together with other kids his age and they found out that you can make milk come out your nose? Jesus had to laugh at that. Or the first time his fun filled uncle had him pull his finger? Laugh time! Or the wedding at Cana? He could not have gone to a wedding without laughing; he’d have been thrown out. Or remember the time when the 72 came back and reported on the amazing healings they were able to perform? Jesus could not possibly tell that story at our table without laughing.
    Mart, your question sparked a train of thought that I’ve enjoyed imagining. Mazel Tov!

  13. desert rose says:

    No doubt He laughed. It is a healthy response and since He came to earth as a baby to experience life Jesus no doubt laughed and told funny stories.

    When the children sat at his feet, I believe Jesus used situations that were funny to teach the children principles of the Bible.

    Laughter is healthy and we should do it alot.

    A merry heart puts a smile on your face. Proverbs 15 (My version)

  14. forteag says:

    Romans 12:15 (King James Version)
    Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.

    1 Peter 1:8 (King James Version)
    Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:

    Do the above verse give the impression that our Christian walk is void of laughter? Of course not!

    How can we have joy unspeakable without a healthy dose of laughter?

    Without being doctrinal, there are those who remain silent where the bible is silent. Does the bible ever mention that Jesus bathed?

    Rejoice in the Lord always and again I say rejoice. Laugh and split at the side if necessary but please do not be vulgar.

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