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Black, White, and Grayscale

Some of us tend to think in terms of black-and-white, clear-cut categories. To us, a statement or a conclusion is either true or false. Others are more likely to see how the same statement might be either true or false depending on the circumstances.

Some of us work from a truth model which might say, for instance, that “The Bible says it is wrong to murder.” Others respond from a wisdom model which says, “But remember, killing isn’t always wrong. According to Solomon, there is a time to kill and a time to heal.”

The Bible feeds both temperaments. It gives us black-and-white statements of truth. It also teaches how to walk together through the gray areas of life. While encouraging us to be people of truth, the Scriptures warn us not to play God in matters that are beyond our knowledge.

No one gave the church more right thinking than the apostle Paul. Yet no one gave us more reason to respect one another in the gray fog of circumstances, motives, and interpretation. No one gave us more reason to realize that the Bible is not only a book of black-and-white principles, but is also a book of the heart.

With regard for the need to love one another in a fog of known and unknown, Paul reminded the Corinthians, “Now we see in a mirror, dimly” (1 Cor. 13:12). To the Romans, Paul asked, “Who are you to judge another’s servant?” (Rom. 14:4). Then again to the Corinthians, Paul added, “I do not even judge myself” (1 Cor. 4:30). While he wasn’t diminishing his accountability to the truth, he did acknowledge that in many different ways only God is in a position to judge us wisely, accurately, and lovingly.

We are prone to ignore what we know– and what we don’t know. It takes thought to remember what is certain. It takes patience with one another in areas for which God alone is in a position to be our judge.


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13 Responses to “Black, White, and Grayscale”

  1. poohpity says:

    I am so guilty of judging others. I thought of my self as one who tried to look at my behaviors rather than others yet in that I looked at other believers in judgment. I would get so upset at how one would refer to themselves as believers yet know nothing of the Word of God. God in His great wisdom told me that that was His job and He did not need my help, I was to love them in spite of my opinion. This is something I have to continually watch and fail at so miserably. I believe we are called to be kind because we never know what someone is going through or has gone through. I also realize that this can be considered a gray area because we are called to be iron sharpening iron but it can also cause people not to want to be around you when you speak about reading the bible to them. This is a real problem for me. I am so glad that I am loved and accepted by the Lord.

  2. Your Love Inspires says:

    I have to start off by saying that I have become pretty jaded by “money issues” witnessed in the church today. Jesus Himself showed His displeasure with the moneychangers in the temple. Unfortunately, motives alot of the time show themselves to be currency driven, bigger ministry, bigger houses, bigger cars, more everything, supposedly evidence of God’s “blessing.” I work in a secular venue by the beach where I sell (and give away sometimes at The Holy Spirit’s urging) Christian writing, photography, and Scripture as well as landscape photography. Being out there by myself has given me the opportunity to talk to non believers (the lost) and what I hear a lot of the time is very disheartening in it’s criticism of our faith because it rings true. Paul talked about “correcting” other believers when they went astray as well as continuing our training in the matters of faith as to provide an honest witness of the love of our Lord Jesus to those in the world. In times as these where hypocrisy runs rampant, we better look at ourselves in the mirror and hold ourselves accountable as to what kind of a testamony we are living through our actions. We are at risk of becoming less relevant to an increasingly (and rightfully so) skeptical world. Many will say self rightiously that most of those are just looking for an excuse to stone us because they do not want the accountability of following Jesus but the fact is that many base their opinions on our at times, hypocritical, self serving agendas. I am sorry for sounding “judgemental” but it is what it is.

  3. rokdude5 says:

    Obtaining knowledge is so much more easier than execising Bible based wisdom. Im constantly mulling gestures of legalism versus gestures of loving concerns.

    Currently there is a movement among God-believing pharmacists who are saying “no” to the morning after pill. The premise is that there is a sanctity of life which occurs at conception that should be honored and respected which I wholeheartedly agree. However, in a rare instance where a single mother comes to a pharmacist whose has two toddlers in tow and whose next delivery would most likely terminate her life, is it so diabolically evil to give her the pill?

  4. daisymarygoldr says:

    The Bible is Black and White about our sinful status, salvation in Jesus Christ, preaching the Gospel and living a new life by deepening ones relationship with God that involves reading His word and praying. The commandments are also very crystal clear about moral living- not to lie, cheat, steal, murder, commit adultery, or covet.

    When it is about other things (gray areas) that is not related to salvation but do pertain to my Christian witness that may hinder the gospel or offend a fellow believer or affect my spiritual growth or race- like dress, food, medicines, TV, movies, books, music, politics, money, sports, school, work etc…I am greatly helped by “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is good for (me)… not everything is beneficial.” (1 Cor.6:12 and 10:23). Being called to love God- we always seek to glorify Him in everything; being called to love my neighbor as myself- our prime concern is for the immortal soul rather than only the temporal body…

    When it comes to other doctrines that are not foundational to faith- like speaking in tongues women pastors, divorce (do have some very close friends in all categories), I will apply the truth in its absoluteness to myself but to them I say that maybe now I know things partially but then I will know completely…
    We certainly do not judge others but it is better to judge ourselves (individually and corporately as the Body of Christ) than be judged by the Lord (1 Cor 11:31)…

    kelvin, we all stumble because we are human…remember God’s grace is always there to lift us up and His forgiveness is readily available even at the lowest point of lives. Praying for you and your family…

  5. Your Love Inspires says:

    When we show concern for someone else,
    and put their feelings above our own,
    is when we show the kind of Love,
    that let’s us look upon The Throne.

    Real beauty in the world today,
    is not something that can be bought,
    it is compassion for another soul,
    this is what Jesus taught…

  6. desert rose says:

    This is one of the best written articles I’ve read on the ‘gray’ areas of life. Sometimes, this ‘grey’ areas causes divisions in lives that are never settled. We are responsible for ourselves when we answer to God. When we give our view, we would be wise to do it lovingly and kindly, humbly and with the Holy Spirit’s leading. We often forget the greatest commandment given to mankind: Love one another!

  7. poohpity says:

    Hey Mart,

    Is the guy in the picture praying, married? LOL

    Hey Kelvin I had fourteen years then fell back into my old life and you are in my prayers and heart. With the Lord, He already knew what you were going to do and His arms are open wider than ever to hold you. I have learned so much more about His Love through that experience and you will too. He never turns His back to us but we at times turn our back to Him and His love never fails.

  8. David says:

    Seems the older I get the more I am using the “wisdom model.” I am much less judgemental and less sure of my judgements than I was 30 years ago. I am thinking that pattern is less of a burdon on me and more likely to be God’s will. I find myself thinking “Mercy trumps justice” when I am making a judgement on moral issues these days. Sometimes I am concerned that I am “giving in to “pop culture” however. Seems there is lots and lots of ambiguity in this life. Seems the more I learn, the less I know.

  9. chfranke says:

    David,sounds like you are on the right track to me. Humbling, isn’t it?

  10. Niivam says:

    Yes, we have been asked not to judge. But we have also been asked to rebuke one another. The problem arises when one do not know the difference between the two and moreover how to rebuke.
    I think there is a fine line between these two words and I believe it is an important area in our faith walk that the body of Christ need more teaching on.

  11. Hephzibah610 says:

    Love must come first…

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