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Judging the Truth, Ourselves and Others

Someone has said, “Wise are those who look at others with the same generosity they offer themselves, and who look at themselves with the same critical eye they have for others.”

Yet as balanced and insightful as that quote is, it is not the whole story. Questions remain, especially for those of us who want our life guided by the wisdom of the Bible.

So let’s take a closer look:

On several different occasions Jesus said,

“Judge not, that you be not judged” (Matt 7:1).

“Judge not, and you will not be judged: condemn not, and you will not be condemned: forgive, and will be forgiven”  (Luke 6:37).

“For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved” (John 3:17).

Yet Jesus also speaks of judgment in another sense when he says,

“I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father which hath sent me” (John 5:30)

Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment” (John 7:24).

Then there’s the Apostle Paul who in several different letters reflects a similar breadth of meaning when it comes to the idea of “judging”. On one hand he says,

“Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever you are that judges: for wherein you judge another, you condemn yourself; for you that judge do the same things… And do you think this, O man, you who judge those practicing such things, and doing the same, that you will escape the judgment of God?” (Romans 2:1,3).

“Who are you to judge another’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls. Indeed, he will be made to stand, for God is able to make him stand…But why do you judge your brother? Or why do you show contempt for your brother? For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ” (Romans 14:4,10).

“For if we would judge ourselves, we would not be judged. But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world” (1Corinthians 11:31-32).

Yet, like Jesus, Paul also recognizes another side of judgment when he writes,

“Therefore judge nothing before the time, until the Lord come, who both will bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and will make manifest the counsels of the hearts: and then shall every man have praise of God” (1Corinthians 4:5).

For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed…For what have I to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges. Therefore “put away from yourselves the evil person” (1Corinthians 5:3,12,13).

And finally there is James who sounds a lot like both Jesus and Paul when he writes in his own letter:

“Do not speak evil of one another, brethren. He who speaks evil of a brother and judges his brother, speaks evil of the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is one Lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. Who are you to judge another? (James 4:11,12).

So how do we net out these various comments about judging?

I don’t claim to have it all figured out. But while recognizing that the word for judgment can have different meanings (i.e. to form an opinion about the truth, or “to condemn”– depending on the context), here’s what I’m seeing,

Good judgment, or discernment, is to be exercised in love, for the good of one another.

As we form an opinion about the facts, we are to hold ourselves accountable first, before we try to lovingly and honestly hold one another accountable.

Above all, except where we are required by judicial process to make temporary legal decisions in behalf of society, we must not presume to judge the motives of others or any other factor which God alone is in a position to judge.


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19 Responses to “Judging the Truth, Ourselves and Others”

  1. Ted M. Gossard says:

    Good helpful words, Mart.

    One of my biggest challenges comes from how people can be made light of so easily in the open- and my response to that. Though like you say, we need to look first at ourselves, and then in love seek to apply the truth of God’s word to the situation to help the one who seems to be in the wrong.

    Truthing in love seems to be what this is all about. Reminds me of Jesus, and the accounts of him in the gospels.

  2. BruceC says:

    This is one of those “tough” parts of the Word that I have difficulty with many times and presently so with a matter I’m concerned with in my church. Glad you made it a topic and look foward to wading through it.

  3. plumbape says:

    What a HUGE issue in life!! I worked as a plumbing supervisor for several years. My main task put me in the judgment seat constantly between customers and service men and the company I had to answer to. Always wanting to be fair and apply “the customer is always right” concept is a lesson in understanding to be sure. So many times (almost always) there is misunderstandings involved that lead to big problems. I feel this is why the scriptures discourage judging others because we usually don’t know the facts involved which is like judging a book by it’s cover. In every case I’ve found it best to use patience and kind words to resolve the issue which also meant having someone angry and yelling and accusing when I first arrived but I ask myself how I would feel in this persons place. Isn’t it just like our human nature to want to always be right, thinking we have the right to judge someone when even our top court judges make serious mistakes and they have the facts!
    I’m no expert by any means. I have learned to think about the other persons point of view and don’t be quick to pass judgment. Thanks Mart and God Bless

  4. daisymarygoldr says:

    Today’s topic is so-o-o highly saturated with judgmentalism (42 times!) that I can feel every ruthless pinch and punch, kick and whip. Mart, can I plead for a drop of mercy here? Its OK… will try to endure it while taking a shot at this judgy (made this up) topic with every dying breath…

    “…for those of us who want our life guided by the wisdom of the Bible”.

    We judge ourselves not by comparing with others, but by examining ourselves in the light of God’s Word. What gentleness or love would one expect to feel under the cutting action of this spiritual surgical blade?

    Self-judging doesn’t involve condemning, accusing, criticizing, or being reduced to a writhing guilt of self-loath…it is a healthy practise of measuring ourselves to the standard of Christ to whom we are accountable…this is all about self-evaluation and self-correction that leads to repairing, rectifying, building up, encouraging, exhorting and restoring.

    When we feel convicted of our shortcomings it draws us back to His throne of grace to humbly receive what He has already accomplished for us in His love!

    In case of such issues within the local church I’m glad that as a woman I don’t have to handle such things…no, actually it is a very tough job for the leadership and the entire body in general and I agree that this should be done with love…

    Don’t know about what is being said in the judicial process para …1 Cor 6 is asking us to avoid lawsuits…never mind- I’ll figure that out myself…will do anything now to avoid the pelting stones…

  5. Mart De Haan says:

    DMG, good insights!! Thank you for helping to flesh out!!

  6. dep7547 says:

    “What about the eighteen who died when the tower of Siloam fell on them? Were they more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem?” This verse was brought to life to me by the living, God, at 1:30, this morning; as I wondered about all of the damage that occurred around me last night and left my family suffering only from a downed power line. The nearby town of Griffith, Indiana, was heavily damaged by microbursts in one of the fiercest thunderstorm patterns I have ever witnessed in my life!

    Although it was sweltering, I had a bed to sleep on last night–something that many others could not claim to have had. A tremendous wave of guilt came over me as I stood outside, smoking pot, and listening to what my neighbor told me about the damage that he had heard and seen. His mother lives in Griffith and was unharmed physically by the damage, yet, in disbelief at what happened around her. She told her son that she had no words to explain what happened.

    Even now, I wonder why a person like me who was actively engaged in my own “secret sin” should have been spared: Mind you, there were uprooted and lightning damaged trees within a couple of blocks of my house; so I was not beyond the reaches of the multiple storms which drenched our region with four inches of much needed rain. In fact, during the storm that created the microbursts, lightning danced at its own freewill all around my house–my neighborhood. I could not find any discernable reason for why I had been spared.

    I have learned much over the years in terms of forgiveness and I certainly hope that my confession offended no one: I intended it merely as an example to illustrate that I was as guilty as anyone at the time things happened.

    My wife and I had a chance to survey the damage extensively this afternoon. An entire strip mall was damaged as well as several residences on either side of it. Down the street, an entire apartment complex was destroyed. Except for a couple of major patches of activity, much of the damage was widespread, so it does not appear as though a tornado touched down; however, the wind damage was severe. I am certain that many residents in Northwest Indiana and Chicago would love to have people praying for them. Goodnight and God bless!

  7. Mart De Haan says:

    plumbape, thanks for such a practical example, and dep7547 for such vivid and honest reflection on such a powerful storm.

  8. Your Love Inspires says:

    As I read this post I cannot help but think of the word “descernment.” Righteous and compassionate judgement had been a part of my life for over 38 years, with me usually ending up in jail or prison as the result. On the outside, the punishment was just, but looking at it from the inside, my drug abuse and criminal behavior was fueled by early childhood sexual abuse with many years of psychological abuse to follow. The perpetrator has never been held accountable and quite to the contrary, is held in esteem by societies standard. I have forgiven him, only partly because of what Jesus said while on The Cross but for the most part because my unforgiveness was killing me.

    As I see what goes on in the world today, from “lifetime blessings” offered by “evangelists” for a $5000 donation to their ministry to a President and other politicians who claim “faith” while justifying all types of lies and agendas for a “greater good” while it always turns out part of that “greater good” has to do with self promotion and profit while others are sacrificed, sometimes I ask God why. He says in His Word that we are to carry ourselves as sheep among wolves. Gods protection is in descernment with true restoration of relationships possable only with repentance by the “offending party.” We love because He loved us first but He too asks for our repentance and participation in our eternal restoration. For me, anything else is just too painful.

  9. damoncasseday says:

    This is an excellent topic. judging is all-too easy in our society. It is true, our society has degraded greatly in recent years, but it is not our place to judge, for there is one judge. I have had to learn this myself the past few months, being judged by corrupt court systems in Pennsylvania, but may the Lord have mercy on them for the corruption of their money, power, and hearts. GOD BLESS AND HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!

  10. desert rose says:

    Mart,
    What great comments and your blog sure brings us to the question of judging. I have always heard that you judge a tree by its fruit. But in my personal life, I have been so misjudged by individuals that has caused me to have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, I was in a cult and I can tell you that it is traumatic to be on the innocent side of someone judging you – especially when the preface it by “God has shown me..”

    My position is that giving advice is one thing, while judging is something quite different.

  11. Noel Berman says:

    I think it was Oswald Chambers who said something like, when we try to remove the speck in our brother’s eye we do it from the perspective that we do have a log in our own eyes. I think he meant that we must be conscious of our own sin which caused Jesus to die on the cross for us and then from being mindful of our own sin, failure and brokenness, we talk to another (admonish, exhort, etc). Also, Jesus did say that we shall know them by their fruits. So, we do have some role in “judging” but definitely not in condemning as we do not know the motives of people. This kind of “judging” that comes from our own brokenness is easier accepted by the other person whereas if it comes from an attitude of self-righteousness, it may even destroy people and turn them away from the Gospel (Good News)

  12. RichardR says:

    Calling the piece of fruit in the bowl an apple is not judging; calling it bad is.
    It’s easy most times to see the What in another’s life, a lot harder to know the Why.

  13. poohpity says:

    I believe we are to use Jesus as a model for judgment. If I am not mistaken He did not use His time on earth to set in judgment of us but to direct us to His identity of Deity. To direct us to God and His will for us not our own. I understand that He told us we are unable to judge because we do not have all the facts and in our humanness can not even come close to understanding what another human being is going through because we are not them. Jesus came to save us from ourselves because of sin and to compare ourselves to no one other than Him and His righteousness. When we spend time in judgment it keeps us from showing mercy and justice. When we spend time in judgment we do not care for the poor or the needy. When we judge we are really looking at another person rather than keeping our eyes on Jesus who had every right to judge but chose not to.

    When I keep an eye on all that I have done and will do in the future I can not even attempt to look at anyone’s sin. I want to serve God with all my heart, soul and mind but when I am so busy sitting in judgment I have no time to do His work and there are so many people out there that need the Love of Christ without condemnation and I am one.

  14. poohpity says:

    I forgot to put this with my other blog. We have an great example of not sitting in judgment but to bring comfort with the story of Job and his friends. None had any idea what God was up to but all sat in judgment and did not offer any healing balm to one who needed it.

  15. Bessie says:

    Hello, Mr. DeHaan. I have been reading the Daily Bread for many years. However, I have recently been made aware of this blog and as such this is the first time I am leaving a comment. This relates to yesterday’s blog. All of the Bible verses cited tends to caution against judging others. However, when I read this I remembered the passage in lst Corinthians 6: 1-3 that reads: 1. Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints?
    2. Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the world? and if the world shall be judged by you, are ye unworthy to judge the smallest matters?
    3. Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life? (KJV) How are we to understand these verses in light of the ones that you quoted?

  16. poohpity says:

    Noel, I just wanted to let you know that it was Jesus who said that in Matthew 7:3 not Oswald Chambers.

  17. daisymarygoldr says:

    “The spiritual man makes judgments about all things, but he himself is not subject to any man’s judgment” (1Cor 2:15)

    One day each one of us will stand before the greatest of all judges and guess who will do the judging and the condemning? ‘The Word’ (John 12:48)!

    So, instead of looking at each other and talking nineteen to the dozen about stuff that really is of no eternal value, let us get busy with ‘The Word’. It is a fire and a hammer and it will certainly be no fun to apply it to our lives (Jeremiah 23:29). There will be lot of pain when ‘the word’ burns and breaks…don’t whine, don’t complain…just bear it!

    ‘The word’ did become flesh and lived among men…He was rejected, broken, bruised and abused to death…He rose up again to give us life…new life in abundance, old things have passed away … everything in time past of our unregenerate lives ended at the cross. The former hurts, bitterness, hate, fear, torture, wounds and pain will not be brought to remembrance if we only believe and accept His forgiving love.

    We are at war and the battle belongs to the Lord. Of course, there will be casualties… therefore we are told to put on the whole armor of God. We do get wounded but we do not remain focused on our wounds while giving the enemy the smug satisfaction of having brought us down. We get up again form the ground like brave soldiers, use whatever help that is available, let ‘His word’ heal us and continue to fight not by our might but in His strength! It is His job to avenge but for us there is no more turning back.

    After experiencing the obvious risk of following men we do not allow ourselves to be caught up in that same error again. We search the scriptures daily, rightly dividing the truth to present ourselves approved unto God. 1 Cor 7 tells us that we should not remain absorbed in our weeping or our joy… The time is short and there are so many souls to be won…

    The Word will come back again some day (Rev 19). He will use the same sword… but this time there will be no love, no gentleness, no mercy…”For by fire and by His sword the LORD will judge all flesh” (Isaiah 66:15-16). “Don’t you realize that someday we believers will judge the world? Don’t you realize that we will judge angels?”(1Cor 6:2-3).

    So, quit being so judgmental about judging… be on guard, be strong, be courageous, preach the good word, do everything with love, fight the good fight of faith, finish the race, remain faithful and get ready to receive the prize that awaits you- the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give on the day of His return… for all who eagerly look forward to His appearing!

  18. Mart De Haan says:

    Great discussion. Thanks again to all of you. What I think we are seeing together is that Paul, James, and our Lord, himself, regards “judging one another in a hurtful manner” as a very serious matter.

    Again, and for example, the Scriptures indicate that judging can be hurtful and sinful i.e. if we judge others self-righteously, unlovingly, carelessly– without knowing or considering the facts (gossip), unnecessarily– when we are actually meddling in matters that are none of our business etc.

    On the other hand “judging” is godly and “Christ-like” when we weigh matters carefully in our own lives and others so as to be honest, loving, and helpful (with humility)– without presuming to be God (the final arbiter who alone understand all of the motives and factors involved in our lives).

    In Gal 6 and 1Cor 6 it is clear that there are times when members of the family of Christ need to wisely use good judgment, with appropriate process, to help resolve conflict in the family and protect that name of Christ.

    Where it is important, and helpful, and necessary to use good judgment in such matters, the Scriptures are full of helpful counsel. I often think of the Proverb that reminds us that in matters of conflict, one side always sounds “right” until we have an opportunity to hear the other side of the issue. (Prov 18:17 in the NIV says, “The first to present his case seems right, till another comes forward and questions him.”)

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