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A Song for Those Who Remain

As of today, news agencies are reporting that the number of those lost in the Haitian earthquake has reached the number of those who died in the Asian Tsunami of 2004.

Who can measure the loss of one—let alone 230,000 and counting…

And why them and not us?

Only God knows why we are still alive… and why so many others, who were already so destitute, have been taken.

With so many emotions, am reminded of the Psalm that says,

“I said in my prosperity, ‘I will never be moved.’ By your favor, O LORD You made my mountain (i.e. place of refuge) stand strong…”

Then, without warning, the mood of the song changes.

Without a pause, the next words say,

“You hid your face; I was dismayed.
To you, O LORD, I cry
And to the Lord I plead for mercy;
What profit is there in my death,
If I go down to the pit?
Will the dust praise you?”
(Psalm 30:6-9).

That sudden change of mood is repeated over and over in this song. Happiness. Despair. Laughter. Tears…

This is the psalm that says, “Weeping may last for the night, but joy comes with the morning” (vs 5).

Only after a series of highs and lows, does the song conclude,

You have turned for me my mourning into dancing… O LORD my God, I will give thanks to you forever!”

Seems to me that— while at a loss to know what to think or feel in a world of such inexpressible wonder and tragedy…  we owe it to ourselves and to one another to think about the story of possibilities and certainties between the two “I wills” of Psalm 30…

“I will never be moved” (vs 6)… and “I will give thanks to you forever” (vs 12)…

And just as importantly,When the songwriter asks, What profit is there in my death, if I go down to the pit? Will the dust praise you?”

What will we say about him (with and without words)… if we remain?


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  1. poohpity says:

    Mart, I think that sometimes we consider death a horrible thing when it is not the end. It is the end of this physical life but there is more. I used to believe that death was scary and something to be feared until I lost my mom. I know now she has no more struggles with trying to live the American dream. She worked a full time job and she was 74 there was no thought to retire because to keep her home she had to work. That was her dream to own a home after being married for 32 years then divorced, she wanted to know she could do it. It was a struggle for her.

    I look forward to the time I can go home to be with the Lord. The sadness I feel about her death is I miss her. I am glad that she is in a place where she is singing “Holy, Holy is the Lord God Almighty”.

    I know that is a lot of loss in Haiti but I am wondering if to some there maybe rejoicing in their hearts not by those left but by those who have gone to the presence of the Lord.

    I think the worst part in all this is the fact that to get some help there it had to come in the form of an earthquake. Now that is horrible. Matthew 25:31-46 addresses that issue.

  2. John says:

    Seems I remember the first television news of this disaster. My wife and I both remarked about how video was shown of a group of survivors singing praises to God. After such tragedy we find worship ? I believe that those that are most distraught in their circumstances can often be the first to see God. I am learning trying to learn new lessons in my own life to better recognize God in all things coming my way as opposed to seeing Him after he has passed. Blessings to you Mart.

  3. Bob in Cornwall England says:

    David was a man after God’s own heart, as we discussed in the last post.
    David knew great joy and was close to God, but he also knew great sadness and felt seperation from God many times.
    He learnt how to praise and thank God no matter what the situation or how he was feeling on the day.
    It seems he could never let go of God hence the statement “What profit is there in my death, if I go down to the pit? Will the dust praise you?”
    There is no profit for us or God if we die and go to the pit of hell. So, like Paul said, we should persevere to the end trusting in God to keep us safe.
    As for the people of Haiti, I have really no idea.
    Just like David, you would want to praise God for keeping you safe but wonder why He hid his face and allowed such a thing to happen.
    230,000 dead and rising :-(
    Bob

  4. kingsdaughter says:

    I have no idea WHY MY SON DIED BY SUICIDE. I have told God today that I HATE this LIFE. I DO NOT WANT to be here. But, I wear a smile when I go out and say to those who dare ask, “How are you doing?”…that I am FINE??? LIES. I will never be fine. My life has been altered FOREVER! But I have turned to God in my grief…madness and all. One day is UP and the next day is very very down….and it is that way from one minute to the next. Triggers that make me crumple into a sobbing heap, a phone call thinking that it could be Brandon (WHAT AM I THINKING?) this is craziness. I can relate to all of the emotions wrapped up in David’s journals….He was on the ROLLER COASTER of grief. It is exactly as he has written it. I praise God that there is a Heaven and for salvation…but right now, I am not happy that I had to be left behind…that my son went first…when I specifically prayed that I never outlive any of my family.

    My heart also cries for these poor people who have lost everything. But I am thinking the same way as others… they are center stage now, gutted and grieving for the world to share with them the prosperity of God’s word and the help they should have.
    But let’s not forget Satan’s role in this life. He is on the prowl….killing, stealing…and destroying.

    I recommend reading “The Screwtape Letters”…a book my son introduced me to…by C.S. Lewis.

  5. kingsdaughter says:

    Bob, my dear friend in Cornwall….I trusted God to keep my child safe….hmmmm, what happened? The book of Psalms has allowed me to be able to BE ANGRY AT GOD…even though He did not kill my son…HE allowed it and ignored what I thought would be the answer to my prayers. Now, after saying that…I also know He may have taken my son out of a worse situation that I couldn’t comprehend(Praise God for all the things He does that I can’t understand at this moment.) But, I suffer. I am having to learn to trust all over again. I have very few days when I am dancing and shouting YES, God has my son!!! if any…right now, I am missing my child and wondering what I did wrong…and then I go the opposite direction…thankful that my son does not have to be here to see us struggle in our lives. I am a selfish mother.

    God bless you,
    Dale

  6. SFDBWV says:

    Please excuse me Mart, When I read Psalm 30, what I see is a vibrant testimony to the victory of God’s influence and interaction with the troubles David had endured.

    Maybe I misunderstood your meaning in the Topic comments, but I didn’t see a series of ups and downs. I seen victory. As well as giving credit to God for the victorious life David felt he owed to God.

    As for vs’s 8 & 9,David says that he made suplication and his case to the Lord and the Lord came through as stated in vs’s 11&12.

    David’s troubles were people to people and sometimes of his own making. War, literaly, and embattled relationships. Almost always fearing for his life.

    The terrible natural disasters that take hundreds of thousands of lives, as in Haiti, are a very different matter, tho similar to anyones fears and grief. A person could make the same case for his life as did David, if they found themselves facing an earthquake, or a tidalwave, or volcanic eruption, or hurricane, or even a sinking ship or house fire.

    Why some live and others die? Unanswerable!

    In the insurance business as well as some courts, natural disasters are credited as an act of God.

    In our broken and acursed world, such calamities will continue until all of creation is restored.

    Where do we fit in? Can an orphaned child give praise to God while mourning the loss of their family? Or can a father or mother praise and give thanks to God while burying their only child?

    Knowing that all of existance is all about God, that He (God) has a perfect plan and reason for all that He does. Doesn’t ease the pain of the death of a loved one. However, Jesus Christ gives us *Hope* that we may see that person again and feel their presence.

    What will we say if we remain?….Perhaps, ” Lord, give me strength to endure even if I don’t understand. Still I will trust thee.”

    Steve

  7. kingsdaughter says:

    “You have turned for me my mourning into dancing… O LORD my God, I will give thanks to you forever!”

    I will be very happy to come to this conclusion but as for the grief and despair, as I am told in Ecclesiastes…there is a season for grief. I can understand why David addresses this over and over. Grief has a relentless personality. I know most of us do not have to fight battles like David …or do we? My battles are contained and personal yet that does not make me insensitive to global tragedies…war and natural disasters.

    Beth Moore recently did a study on Psalms. I cannot remember the exact chapter but she stressed the very same emotional mania where David is saying Thanks in one breath to suddenly say in the next, “Kill the wicked!” She brings a certain humor to it in her delivery.

    Steve, I remember people saying that Hurricane Katrina was a punishment from God. Perhaps people contribute these huge destructive forces as acts of God because He took all the credit in biblical times. I am not so sure, except for God’s covenant not to flood the earth again…that perhaps this could be true…to get our collective attention focused on a certain place/people. If we give God the credit for His plan and that He is in control…then why wouldn’t this be true?

    dale

  8. SFDBWV says:

    Sorry to jump off the topic, just wanted to give a weather update; 14 more inches last night and 7 more today with blizzard like winds and whiteouts.

    In 5 days and 3 snow storms we have recieved 54, fifty four inches of snow.

    I do not remember this much snow on the ground at one time in my lifetime. We have a solid 38 inches of snow cover with drifts much higher. It has warmed up to 15 degrees, as I write this.

    As much as we make light of this situation, there are plenty of people at the edge of peril, right here right now. To drive in this weather is very dangerous. The weight of the snow on peoples homes, and the inaccessability to some, make for a bad situation.

    We will endure, but everyone is looking for that joy that sunshine will bring.

    Steve

  9. kingsdaughter says:

    Just got a call from my mother in Philadelphia…33 in. on the ground..they cannot see the neighbors across the street with the snow still coming down until sometime late tonight..since she and her husband are elderly…I hope they don’t lose electricity. They have no other method of heat.

    Of course, some of us here in Florida are hoping to get the flurries they say we may get on Friday. I know, I know…it sounds so…so …Floridian.

  10. kingsdaughter says:

    I’m sorry Steve…I meant to add…I hope you and your family will be okay in this blizzard and will have heat.

    They just announced on the news that this is a record since 1899? (i think that was the date) WOW! I do hope and pray for the safety of all who are in this situation. I can only imagine the conditions on mountainous roads and highways. God bless and be with you all.

    Dale

  11. bubbles says:

    On the news last week, a young Haitian girl was shown in a tent. Her injuries from the quake resulted in her losing an arm and leg. Like John mentioned earlier, she was SINGING praises to God. What an amazing testimony. What a convicting testimony.

    p.s. Steve, I’ll pray your roof holds up–be careful.
    Since Decebmer 18th, we have received 86.9 inches of snow. Don’t know how much has fallen here in the past 24 hours.

    A good thought:
    We don’t have to think about bears, mosquitoes, ticks, yellowjackets, hornets, and most reptiles (including rattlesnakes and copperheads), or bats right now!

  12. Bob in Cornwall England says:

    We are so lucky here, like you Dale we might get a flurry of snow or sleet, but the Snow Drops have long been in flower and Daffs and everything is bursting into life.
    Steve & Stacy, you make me feel guilty for it being so mild here.
    I will pray for your situations as, if it continues much longer, there will be fatalities.
    As it says in proverbs “The sun shines on the unrighteous and the righteous alike.” That applies to snow and earthquakes to. There is no distinction and like Haiti it seems to be a random process. Even though God does send His Angels to protect us.
    Dale, the psalms are a great comfort when we grieve as they reflect the heart and it’s many emotions and needs. If David was a man after God’s own heart then God must feel pain and grief in the same way we do.

    Bed time for me!

    Bob

  13. daisymarygoldr says:

    Today it happened to the Haitians and who knows tomorrow it may be my turn…to stare at the face of death when forced to fall into the merciless lap of an earthquake, Tsunami, tornado, terrorist or for that matter any other tragedy!

    And why them and not me…?

    True, I didn’t get killed by the Haitian earthquake or the Asian Tsunami. Yes, when many are dead, I’m still alive. And No, it is not because I am in any way less of a sinner than those who got prematurely cut off from the land of the living.

    Truer still is the fact, if God gave me what I really deserve, I would suffer much worse than a devastating earthquake. I would be dead in hell for all of eternity.

    However, God did not give me what I deserve. Instead, He spared not His only Son who suffered death for me… so that “I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living… that I will not die, but live to declare the works of the Lord”!

  14. daisymarygoldr says:

    Paul’s thoughts for those of us who remain is:

    “Don’t waste your time on useless work, mere busywork, the barren pursuits of darkness… Wake up from your sleep, Climb out of your coffins; watch your step. Use your head…

    …Make the very most of the time [buying up each opportunity], Don’t live carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants.” Eph 5: 11-17

    To my understanding, “The night is almost gone, and the day is at hand” (Rom 13:12)… Q is: am I ready to meet my Maker?

    And as I find myself still alive…to have been given some more time, I “know” that I’m living on borrowed time. I “know” I cannot afford to vile away even a single moment of that precious time.

    So, what will I say about Him… if I remain?

    It is only because of the Lord’s mercies that I am not consumed. I “know” I’ve been spared from death for a greater purpose—to serve our God—in order to bear the testimony of my Messiah… the One who died and rose to live eternally, so I may also live eternally with Him!

  15. poohpity says:

    I believe that Psalms 30 was written as a celebration song for David’s palace which he was able to build but God denied him the pleasure of building the Temple because David had to much blood on his hands.

    I was reading a book by A.W. Tozer today “The pursuit of God”. Tozer stated, “Let us say it again: The universal Presence is a fact. God is here. The whole universe is alive with His life. We will know Him in increasing degree as our RECEPTIVITY becomes more perfect by faith and love and practice.” I think our perception of God is by visible things and asking the why’s in things when if we truly trust God in ALL things our journey has less valleys and mountains but is more concrete and steady.

    I used to have so many times when I questioned so much only to find that my faith would fail. I want so bad to not look to theology or reasoning but to just trust that God already knows what was going to happen and how it is going to all turn out and I have to no longer worry but rest in His care and serve Him in whatever He has given me to do. It is amazing that those who suffer so much can look up and say, “Praise you, Father”. I think they know how it could all be worse than what is in front of them, as we look and say how horrible it already is.

  16. poohpity says:

    Steve, bubbles and whomever is in the east during this snow storm it sounds like a good time to huddle together for warmth. You guys are being blasted. Is it not amazing how much we take for granted like electricity. Please stay warm.

    To our Haitian neighbors, your faith has touched my heart.

  17. Lively says:

    Steve –

    Last night they didn’t think it would be that bad for you – at least that was the weather report I got here.

    I know we didn’t get as much as you did but I’ve no clue of the real total with the wind. Least I measured was 7″ but it was closer to 20″ in other areas. Drifts are significat here, too. Actually closed two important roads around here. There’s actually a fire station that was still unplowed as of yesterday – along with numerous side roads.

    I can’t remember longing for spring more.

  18. phpatato says:

    My daughter is a Canadian Red Cross volunteer serving in various areas, one being with their Disaster Services. Tonight will be the 3rd time in as many weeks that she will greet repatriate Canadian Haitians and Haitian orphans, (whose adoption papers have been fast-tracked), with warm blankets and a warm hug. Some arrive wearing only sandals and sundress…everything they own. She has cried to me about the feelings (not only hers but others involved)that simply can’t be expressed into words. She has said that this by far has touched her life more than anything else in her life. Out of a dark tragedy, they have been given another chance for renewed hopes and dreams. “I will give you thanks forever”.

    1 Chronicles 21 (2 Samuel 24) may possibly provide the background to Psalm 30. We read that Satan incited David to do a census of Israel. David’s command to have this done was evil in the sight of God so God punished Israel. The Lord sent a plague where 70,000 men fell dead. As the angel of the Lord was about to destroy Jerusalem, the Lord saw it and was GRIEVED because of the calamity. He said to the angel, (vs 15) “Enough! Withdraw your hand.”

    God does indeed feel the hurts, pains and sufferings of His children. He is a loving God.

    David saw a terrible thing happen because of his sin…a plague killing innocent people, lots of innocent people. After taking ownership of his sin, after building an alter and after sacrificing burnt offerings and peace offerings, David also saw a loving and compassionate God stop that plague.

    Now that danger was behind him, David gladly and openly acknowledges his debt of gratitude…Psalm 30:12 -….”I will give you thanks forever”.

    My prayers to everyone who are in the path of yet another snowstorm and blizzard. Stay where it’s safe.

  19. Lively says:

    Oh, php – that is heartwarming to hear. Thank you for sharing that. How blessed your daughter is to experience such happy moments in the lives of others.

  20. gatormaw says:

    Kingsdaughter, I want you to know that I understand exactly what you are going through, and that I am praying for you and thinking of you daily. I remember having the same feelings you write about. I wish there were something I could do to really ease your pain, some words I could say that would help get you through it, but I know first hand that only time and Gods love will make it easier for you. I understand your feelings of wanting to leave this world for the next, if not only to escape the pain but to also be with your son. In Gods time, you will be reunited. That is our only consolation at a time like this, knowing that when we have served our purpose here, we will hopefully experience the ultimate joy of joining those who went before us. I pray that God will get you through this and each day brings a little more peace to your troubled soul.

  21. SFDBWV says:

    Goodmorning all, Another 14 inches of snow yesterday thru this morning, bringing our February total to 69 inches and seasonal total to 193 inches.

    Not to worry, I have still been feeding the deer, but this week has been very hard on the turkeys, and smaller deer. Turkey have to scratch down through the snow and forest floor to find seeds. with this much snow cover many will starve.

    It is one of the reasons turkey and deer feed together. The deer paw up the snow and expose the ground. However in this kind of situation, even the deer are in trouble.

    This is the way of things and the way of nature.

    I think also that the natural disasters that occur are just that, the natural way of things. Unfortuately people get caught up in the matter and are affected by them.

    This is where we as brothers and sisters of all humanity, come to the aid of thoes who need help. Answering that age old question Cain ask of God, yes Cain, we are our brothers keepers.

    Be safe where ever you are.

    Steve

  22. kingsdaughter says:

    Gatormaw, I often come here for comfort. There are so many wise souls here. They handle everything with a perspective I only thought I had until this happened. I also know there is only so much a person can say in a situation like this. I, myself, would not know how to address this if I were to meet another in my shoes had it not happened to me. I appreciate your prayers. I also pray that God’s will be done to comfort all those who endure loss. I know He is with us…I pray you are also being comforted here and in His everlasting arm.

    God bless you.
    Dale, in “sunny” Florida…no, I am not gloating… ;)

    ps…Steve, I did not know about deer and turkey and how they feed…except the deer here in my back pasture can stand up and eat all the apples on the apple tree! Thanks for the info.

  23. poohpity says:

    Mart, you asked, “What will we say about him (with and without words)… if we remain?

    I will say with words, Father you know the length of my days and you know ahead of time what will happen in my life and I trust that you will be with me THROUGH it all. I can trust my life in your hands and have written my calender in pencil and I have given you the eraser. Your will not mine be done and help me put aside my wants and replace my desires with yours. Please help me not be moved in my faith and love and let me practice all that you have taught me especially to show mercy and compassion to those in need. Please let my actions display Christ like character in my comings and goings.

  24. kingsdaughter says:

    Another note: I hope my posts before allowed others to know that it was just to let you all see how it is that we can go from one extreme to the other in our emotions. I do know that David was expressing his frustrations, sorrow and then happiness with his own conclusion. I love the freedom that God allows us to interject all of this in our conversations with Him. I used to think (in my Christian infancy) that it was blasphemous to speak that way to our Lord. I didn’t know what to think of David. But as I grew to more mature food…more personal sorrows..I learned quite differently. Expression is given to us by God. To me, the Psalms are songs of every expression imaginable. It is poetry right from the heart.

  25. kingsdaughter says:

    Pooh…I LOVE THAT! Yes, a calendar with an eraser!!! I prayed this morning more about HIS will than my own..if we do that..we can hardly be disappointed.

  26. poohpity says:

    I wish it was my thought about the eraser but it was in ODB this morning.

  27. gatormaw says:

    I agree Pooh, that was beautiful and really moved me. Can I borrow it? I know the trials I have been through this past week must be Gods will, even though I don’t always understand why he makes us endure so much pain and suffering. Perhaps to bring us closer to those we may never have known of otherwise? I kind of feel like that is what this site is all about. I can testify that it is what has gotten me through this week and will continue to get my through my future. Upon further thought, I am reminded of the many natural disasters and terrorist acts of the past years that have brought so many people together to help others. Is it his way of saying the world has gotten so ugly and self-centered, I am going to remind you that you need ME and each other? That we need to show more love and compassion and understanding? My brain seems to twist itself into knots when I try to understand his reasoning, but I guess it is not for me to question, just accept and learn from.

  28. xrgarza says:

    Mart and All,

    You might have heard me say this before, but I believe that the greater the tragedy, the greater the blessing will be.

    I haven’t always believed that, My father died in 1970, when I was only 13y/o that was the worst thing that could have ever happened to me, today however I can honestly tell you that the best thing that has ever happened to me was having my father die when I was only 13y/o. You see I believe that it made a better man out of me, He is still my hero, I still want to honor him with my life, not to mention my relationship with my heavenly father has blossomed in a way that I could have never have imagined.

    Today as I see my mother very near the time that she will go home to be with our heavenly father it’s a bit somber, although I know there will be singing in the morning I still have to go through the pain. I can’t remember how much I shared with you, but my mother was sent home to hospice last month, her cancer has spread to the bones and there is nothing that can be done by the medical professionals. Yesterday my poor mother was in so much pain she wanted us to call an ambulance, but we are not able to now, so we gave her the first dose of morphine.

    Now the struggle that I face is how do I pray? Rhetorically I know: “Pray God’s will” selfishly I know: “Lord heal my mother” Ignorantly I pray “Lord I don’t have a clue,” what do I say?

    The other struggle that I have, I know that we are to help those in need with whatever we have but if we don’t have it should we beg, borrow and steal to help those in need?

    Haiti is in a devastated situation, and all of the money that has been collected to help that nation is incredible not only by this nation but from all around the world. My question, our nation who basically is broke and in a devastated situation financially, can we really help if we have nothing to help with financially? We have raised a lot of money, we may be in worst shape than Haiti is financially shouldn’t we have raised money to make a dent into our own deficit? Again am I being selfish and ignorant? Or am I simply sounding like Judas Iscariot?

    Just my thoughts, God bless you Keep my family in prayer.

    Xavier

  29. poohpity says:

    My mom waited for a long time to finally take the help from morphine. When she did all she could say was it helps so much. She felt warmth and calm from the pain relief. I know the struggle you are going through and it is hard.

    About Haiti, money is helpful but getting people in their to get their hands dirty should be our prayer as well.

  30. poohpity says:

    Not (their) but there. LOL

  31. phpatato says:

    Xavier

    I feel your pain as I am in ways you have described. My mom is not doing well..she has begun to suffer TIA’s (mini strokes) again; she is so tired. Her heart is doing it’s best to keep pumping. Nothing can be done. I too struggle with how to pray. I just take one day at a time – to cherish the moments I am with her and to visualize in my mind, her being held tight in God’s loving arms when I leave. God is so good. His love and compassion holds no bounds. He will carry us through. Trust Him and hold on tight. Know that I am sending a warm hug for you today and am praying for peaceful comfort for your mom. God Loves YOU.

    Pat

  32. Lively says:

    Pat and Xavier,

    I understand the pain you are both going through. I watched my father and my ex husband slowly die from cancer. I know the grief that comes with “selfishly” wanting them to hold on for awhile longer, and yet wanting them to be free from pain.

    In the end, I prayed for their release from this world and until then, to not be in pain.

    My heart and prayer are with both of you,

    Stacy

    p.s. no, it’s not selfish of you to think that about giving money to Haiti. But, I’ll not raise money to get us out of debt – my taxes SHOULD have done that – but the gov’t (past and present) used it unwisely. The people in Haiti are far more deserving of my money than the fat cats on wallstreet that my tax money helped bail out – and they still live far better than the average American – though they did their best to run us into ruin by their greed. okay, setting soap box aside…

  33. foreverblessed says:

    About giving to those in need, we once had a family in our church from some country in Africa, very poor people, he said, even though they are poor they still share their meals with visitors. So giving. He found it very hard in the westers world, people live in their own homes, making sure they survive by themselves. Where is the sharing?
    Maybe it will come when times get harder.

    It reminds me of the widow and Elijah, 1 Kings 17:7-16.
    She was told to make the bread for Elijaf first, even though none would be left for her and her son. But Elijah told her, 14 For this is what the LORD, the God of Israel, says: ‘The jar of flour will not be used up and the jug of oil will not run dry until the day the LORD gives rain on the land.’ ”

    But to return to the topic, I had just read the story in 1 Chronicles 21. Probably David did write the Psalm 30 just after that disaster with so many of his people dead because of the plague. Imagine how he must have felt, the remorse, the guilt.
    David offered the sacrifice on the field of Araunah the Jebusite, and after he had offered David said: “The house of the Lord God is to be here, and also the altar of burnt offering for Israel”
    And maybe he could have written the dedication Psalm for the Temple some time after that, while he was still dealing with it, his Psalm going up and down because of this great tragedy. Kingsdaughter could describe it very well, as she is going through it.
    Kingsdaughter, and Gator.. and others who grieve over a loss, May God bless you richly, that your time of sorrow may be turned into something positive.
    Like Xavier is saying that this happened to him, but it took a bit of a time.
    Psalm 126:5-6
    Those who sow in tears
    will reap with songs of joy.

    6 He who goes out weeping,
    carrying seed to sow,
    will return with songs of joy,
    carrying sheaves with him.

  34. foreverblessed says:

    May these last days of your parents also be a blessing, may God be very near you.

  35. xrgarza says:

    Pooh, I didn’t even see the typo until you pointed it out :)

    Pat, thank you for your kind words and emphathy. I will remember you in my prayers as well.

    Stacy, thank you too for the kind words and a different perspective, I’m not a selfish person normally. I tell people that when I grow up I want to be a philantripist, but you are absolutley correct about our leaders and bankers.

    Foreverbleesed, our nature is naturally selfish, and our soceity well after the depression has embraced that character trait with open arms, you may be correct the sharing won’t come until tragedy strikes.

    Have a great day all
    Xavier

  36. xrgarza says:

    Pooh, I didn’t even see the typo until you pointed it out :)

    Pat, thank you for your kind words and emphathy. I will remember you in my prayers as well.

    Stacy, thank you too for the kind words and a different perspective, I’m not a selfish person normally. I tell people that when I grow up I want to be a philantripist, but you are absolutley correct about our leaders and bankers.

    Foreverbleesed, thank you for the blessing. Our nature is naturally selfish, and our soceity well after the depression has embraced that character trait with open arms, you may be correct the sharing won’t come until tragedy strikes.

    Have a great day all
    Xavier

  37. pegramsdell says:

    Xavier, You and your mother will be in my prayers. :)

  38. kingsdaughter says:

    Pat and Xavier…I pray that you will be held by His everlasting arm as you endure the illness of your loved ones.

  39. phpatato says:

    Just an update:

    I was just speaking with my daughter. There was a 114 year old woman among the people flown in from Haiti last night. It was well past 2:00 am and she was still awake and trying her best to “hold her own”. The usual warm blanket was not given to her but instead a nice heavy warm coat…the low in Ottawa was somewhere around 8 below F. As well, there were 4 others in their 90’s. I am having a hard time processing this information. WOW!!!!

  40. mjday says:

    I just finished reading Mart’s ‘Song For Those Who Remain” and the comments. The Psalms have been such a wonderful source of comfort for me in times of pain. I agree with you Mart, that David can leap from joy to dispair and back again. Our retired pastor once said that at times David was a “basket case”.

    Kingsdaughter, your posts have brought me back to those times after my son’s death. You communicate the feelings very well.

    Once, when my then wife and I were struggling to figure out the unanswerable question of the ‘why’ of it all, I said that maybe the Lord took Graham to spare him, and others, from an even worse fate. There is a Bible passage somewhere that speaks to that. Debbie was startled and said that her mom had mentioned exactly the same thought.

    And while I’m not yet at the place to say “You have turned for me my mourning into dancing…”, I can honestly say, “O LORD my God, I will give thanks to you forever!”

  41. daisymarygoldr says:

    Been thinking about “Happiness. Despair. Laughter. Tears…”- MDH

    Reminds me of Matt 13 where Jesus addressed those people who fulfill Isaiah’s prophecy:

    “Your ears are open but you don’t hear a thing.
    Your eyes are awake but you don’t see a thing.
    The people are blockheads!

    They stick their fingers in their ears
    so they won’t have to listen…”

    C. S. Lewis in his book ‘The Problem of Pain’ said human sufferings are God’s loudspeakers with which He awakens this “hearing-impaired” generation:

    “God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains; it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.”

    Of course, God does not likes to see us struggle in despair, distress, sorrow and tears, but when we ignore God’s loving whispers, He clamors for attention through our sufferings so that we will wake up from our slumber, repent and progress toward spiritual maturity.

    Just my Thursday thoughts…

  42. xrgarza says:

    pegramsdell & kingsdaughter, and all of you who are praying for my family but have not posted, I appreciate all of your prayers.

    Thank you so much and may the Lord continue to be with you.

    Xavier

  43. foreverblessed says:

    Sometimes we forget that all christians, all of us, will suffer. Just like Christ did suffer, so will we.
    Noboby has to feel they are different, or more hardened, from others because they suffer.
    But just like Christ said, he suffered for the glory that was set before Him, knowing that many would be redeemed because of his suffering, so we can be sure of that as well. 2 Cor 1:5. Phil 1:29. 2 Thess 1:5
    Do you see what I mean to say, even if we would not be hardened, like Christ was not. But yet He had to suffer in order to give salvation to us all. So He suffered, so will we, to have a part in the harvest of souls.
    What we suffer, in that we can bring many to freedom in Christ, maybe not now immediately, but in the process.
    That is the meaning of Psalm 126:5-6:
    we sow in tears, but we will carry sheaves of harvest with us, singing.
    That is a promise, that it will bring a harvest.

    PS. We should not see our suffering as a wrath from God: For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ.
    1 Thessalonians 5:9

  44. InHisHands says:

    My Dear New BTA friends;

    I am requesting your prayers. I don’t even know exactly how to explain, what for – but, this is the short of it. My youngest son is on a self-destruct course. He also has the added influence of recent seizures and the medication to prevent them in the mix. His anger and irrational blaming has gotten him into legal difficulties. (the dr. thought the sheriff would be taking him to a psychiatry facility and they arrested him, in stead)

    The hard part is ‘letting go and letting God’ work through this situation to bring about a Rms. 8:28 ending. My head knows the logic, but my heart responds as a mother – I continue to wonder what I could have done differently, how can I help now, yet, there is nothing for me to do – but pray. (and I know that is the greatest and most blessed weapon I have.) In line with the topic, I know this situation doesn’t rank with the losses suffered by the earthquake victums and I do pray for them, but like David, daily situations and family circumstances are on all of our plates. I just desire to come through with ‘praise on my lips’ and gratefulness in my heart for the work He is going to accomplish in this new trial.

    I feel comfortable asking for you prayers because I know you are all a praying people, and I have joined you in the praying for those who have made request. Together, lifting each other up, is the strongest thing we can do.

    Those in the storms, May the Lord keep you safe. Those suffering from loss, May the Lord make His face to shine up on you and carry you in the way.

    Thank you for this blog. Sorry if I was babbling.

    May you have a richly blessed day in the Lord.

  45. foreverblessed says:

    This ordeal with your son does fit in the topic, he is on the way to be a loss. And you, the people around him suffer with him.
    We can pray:

    To you, O Lord I called,
    to the Lord I cried for mercy
    Hear, O Lord, and be merciful to the son of InHisHands,
    O Lord, be his help.
    Psalm 30:8-9

    I pray that this too will turn out into a blessing, v 11-12! To you, and to your son. And to all who will benefit after that.

  46. Ted M. Gossard says:

    Yes. We need to think on these things. Every one of these people are precious in God’s sight. He loves all he has made. And our times are in his hands. I just don’t have an answer for it, except to go back to the hope in the promise we have in Jesus and by his death and resurrection. As well as in seeking by faith to rest in God in regard to this. And seeking to see it as an opportunity to pray and be ready act in God’s love.

  47. InHisHands says:

    Thank you for that precious prayer.

  48. daisymarygoldr says:

    InHisHands, Thank you for sharing about your son. You are doing the right thing by taking your trial to the Lord in prayer. Please do not blame yourself for your son’s self-destruct behavior. The prodigal’s story is a wonderful promise for all parents to cling to… So, don’t give up on your child but keep waiting on God with hope…for He cares and loves the lost. Your son is in my prayers…

  49. InHisHands says:

    I thank you.

    For verification – He received the gift of salvation and walked the waters of baptism,- but the struggles he deals with come from the anger issues and aggressive behavior. I pray that God will help the system help him to be able to discover his problem and to take whatever he needs to to become balanced.

    Thank you again, for your prayers

  50. kingsdaughter says:

    mjday….I am sorry for the loss of your son and that you walk this valley. Perhaps, this is the verse you were thinking about. It is the only one I could think of…

    “Isaiah 57 (New International Version)
    1. The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart;devout men are taken away,and no one understands
    that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil.
    2. Those who walk uprightly enter into peace;
    they find rest as they lie in death.

    InHisHands…I hope and pray for God’s will be done and that whatever it is..you can accept it. Our children are always at the forefront of our hearts and concerns. We can hardly understand some of the things we have to endure when things don’t go as we had hoped. We can hardly cope when our children go through difficulties that are destructive and seemingly with no real reason….only God knows. I cling to the Serenity Prayer….it is making more sense the more I age.

  51. Anna777 says:

    InHisHands –

    Your letter touched my heart. Oh the heart of a Mother! My prayers are with you. I have been going through a situation with one of my children for several years. I claim the verse in Romans 8:26,27 : (26) In the same way the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words; (27)and He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.”

    The helps say that we are not left on our own as believers to deal with our problems. Even when we don’t know how to pray , the Holy Spirit prays with us and for us, and God answers. If we ask the Holy Spirit to pray with us/for us according to the will of God then we can trust that God will always do what is best.

    There are so many times I don’t even know how to pray. What a comfort to know that the very Spirit of God intercedes for me. I pray that the “mom pain” you feel will start to subside and that the peace that only God can give will comfort you. I don’t know about you, but so many times I think I “give it to God” and before I know it, especially when something else happens, I seem to want to grab it back!

    Praying for you!

    Anna

  52. saled says:

    Steve’s comment about disasters such as the earthquake in Haiti being the natural way of things makes me think of Romans 8:19-25. J.Vernon McGee used to remind us that all of nature sings in a minor key. Verse 22 says, “For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. 23 And not only they but ourselves also, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, that is, the redemption, of our body.”

    Whether it is the deer and turkeys struggling to survive the unusual deep snows, or the people groaning due to natural disasters, or parents burdened with concerns for their children such as In His Hands, all of creation is groaning, waiting for redemption.

    Interesting that Paul continues in verse 24 to say that we are saved by hope. God is the God of Hope.

  53. keepsmiling says:

    Quoting C H Spurgeon, “Rev. 11:12,’Come up hither.’ In time there shall be heard a great voice from heaven saying to every believer saying these words. This should be the subject of joyful anticipation for the saints. Instead of dreading the time when we leave this world to go home to the Father, we should be longing for the hour of our freedom.

    We are not called DOWN to the grave, but UP to the skies. Our heaven-born spirits should long to breathe their “native” air. Our God knows best when to call us saying, ‘Come up hither.’ It is up to our master to say, “Come” or “Stay”. The celestial summons should be the object of patient waiting. Until we receive that heavenly call, we must continue to scatter those precious seeds to grow wheat for our Lord’s granery!”

    And finally to InHisHands: My son was also on a self-destructive course. I felt so helpless, while praying I felt that I had to pray the prayer Jesus prayed at Gethsemane, “Father, NOT my will be done but yours.” I prayed that prayer. My son then was arrested & within 2 wks he asked me to send him a Bible. He is now in Federal Prison. I was devastated, but I have had to entrust his care completely over to God hands & believe that God is in control. I am praying for you and your son.

  54. poohpity says:

    It is hard to realize that the things we go through here are our preparation for eternity. Have you ever noticed that when folks get older they realize that there is more things that are just not as important as they used to be. To be receptive to learning the lessons of God and to be able to fully trust that ALL is in His hands and we can do well to relinquish our control because we actually really have no control. The only thing we have control of is how much of God we want and how much we give of ourselves to Him.

    Just some late night thoughts. If the Lord is willing I will see you guys tomorrow.

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