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Does Anyone Care?

I’ve been thinking lately about inviting a guest blogger from time to time to give us a change of pace and some different perspectives to think about. So please welcome Mike Wittmer. He’s one of our regular bloggers at Our Daily Journey. Over the next couple weeks, we’ll be featuring a few of his posts and have also invited him to join in on the discussion! —Mart

Read: Lamentations 3:19-24

The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease. Great is His faithfulness; His mercies begin afresh each morning (vv.22-23).

Those who have suffered severe loss often lament that their day of tragedy seemed like a normal day for everyone else. On the day they were fired, learned of their cancer, discovered their spouse was unfaithful, or held a child as she died—on that very day other people went about their business as usual. My divorce is final! My beloved is gone! they silently scream. How can you go to work, eat out, and catch a movie as if nothing has changed? Don’t you care?

Worse, their disastrous day seemed normal for God as well. The sun shone, clouds rolled by, night fell, stars appeared. Doesn’t God care either?

The book of Lamentations captured Jeremiah’s anguished cry as he considered the suffering of his people. Life was bad. Jerusalem had been destroyed and its citizens carried off to Babylon. Those left behind had resorted to cannibalism—mothers eating their own children to survive (2:20). Jeremiah laments that his suffering “is bitter beyond words,” but he grasps a glimmer of hope when he remembers that “the faithful love of the Lord never ends” and “His mercies begin afresh each morning” (3:19-23).

Actually, the Lord’s mercies don’t merely begin each morning, they are each morning. Psalm 104 praises God for faithfully tending His diverse creation. The routine events of nature—are all directed by God’s powerful hand. “When You give them Your breath, life is created, and You renew the face of the earth” (v.30).

The clockwork consistency of nature on your worst day is a reminder that God cares. Take it as a sign that God loves you. He’s not debilitated by His grief for you, but is preserving your life until the morning when His mercies will begin afresh.

Thank God for three ways that He provides for you. How can you be a channel of God’s love to someone today? Who is needing His love as displayed through you?


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  1. poohpity says:

    My translation says, verse 21 Yet there is a ray of hope:22 His compassion never ends. It is only the Lord’s mercies that have kept us from complete destruction. 23 Great is His faithfulness; His lovingkindness begins afresh each day. That so blends into today’s ODB I wonder if the Lord is trying to tell me something today, LOL.

    Thank you for the wonderful uplifting thoughts to start the day.

  2. poohpity says:

    I was also thinking that we can say we care but if we do not do anything to show that care it is like spitting into the wind.

  3. wa5tkl says:

    I went through these emotions when my father died. The thought came to me at the time, how could his favorite baseball team (Detroit Tigers) play when one of their good fans had just died? Then later two of my children were killed in a car wreck and I had trouble with the same thoughts, how can the world go on as though nothing happened? But God got me through it.

    While reading your comments I remembered going through those very thoughts you were commenting on. Thank you for sharing.

  4. saled says:

    “The clockwork consistency of nature is a reminder that God cares. He is not debilitated by your grief.” What a great way to look at it.

    When my father died, I truly felt that it should have been on the news. I knew better, he was just a common person, but I didn’t comprehend how life could go on so normally for everyone else. I realize now that it wasn’t going on normally for all of the rest of the world, just some. Plenty of people are going through life-changing events all the time.

    Our perspective limits us, and we all desire the normal life. In the last few years, I’ve stopped thinking that the ‘normal” or ‘nice’ life should be my goal. I have stopped trying to make the perfect life.

  5. bubbles says:

    Helping others who have similar sorrow to our own seems to be a way of allowing God to love others through us.

    2Cor. 1:3-4 Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; who comforteth us in all our tribulation that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the cofort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

    We must ask the Lord to open our eyes and help us really SEE those who need us to come alongside and help them. There’s nothing as comforting as having someone nearby who can empathize and encourage us because they have had a similar experience. It is a blessing to have someone who really understands a situation.

    Using the sorrow we have experienced to help another is
    a way that glory can be given to God from our own circumstances.

  6. pegramsdell says:

    Welcome Mike. Thank you for being a guest speaker.
    Good thoughts.

    Amen, bubbles.
    By paying attention we may be able to see when someone is suffering and offer them love. Empathize with them. Let them know we care.

    I heard a pastor say one time that the one thing most people need to hear is that they are loved. And that Jesus loves them. Everyone at some time has suffered. We should all be able to help someone and understand. :)

  7. scout1 says:

    Thanks for your comments Mike. I also have felt the way that you described. I lost my mom and the world didn’t stop. However, God sees and He cares. I think that part of the problem is: we just don’t understand God’s plan and reasons. The solution is: we just don’t understand God’s plan and reasons. So, relax, trust and follow Jesus. “Lean not on your own understanding” gave me great comfort.

    I’m not saying that it is always easy but on the days that I realize it’s God’s plan and life, not mine -the more I feel loved and can love others too.

  8. SFDBWV says:

    Living in a small community has given me many possitive things. One of them is that we often know of anothers grief, and try and ease their suffering in whatever way we can.

    When there are funerals people send flowers or sometimes money. The local church will often prepare a dinner to feed the family of the deceased, especialy when they have family members travel some distance to attend the funeral.

    The wonderful power of the human touch, when we can give someone a hug, or just let them hold on to you and cry.

    Yes here in my world, people care. But there is a limit to how much they are able to do for you. But they do care.

    Does their life go on? Yes and why shouldn’t it. Would I as a mourner want everyone else in the world to be hurt in the same way I am? What kind of care would I be showing another if I wanted them to be as miserable as I feel?

    No, I pray that no others suffer the grief that I must bear, for the grief I must bear is part of the cross that I must bear.

    I can and should help another through their grief, but it is theirs to bear. I only can show I love them and offer to carry their load for a little while, but ultimately it is their’s to bear for their own purposes.

    Trying to sift through the whys and how comes with God will frustrate you and has no end, except accepting God’s will and yes going on with the life given you.

    Does that mean God doesn’t care? No, quite to the contrary. God’s ways are not our ways. If we accept God’s sovereignty, then no matter how painful, we know that God is right in all that He allows to happen to us.

    No matter how evil it seems to us.

    This is part of growing up and understanding that God is God and will do as He will.

    Steve

  9. scout1 says:

    Hi Steve -I really enjoyed reading your comment. Everyone does have to bear their own hurt. It would be very unkind and uncaring to have others bear what is ours. But, the love and care that we can show to others with God’s help is what we should do.

    I liked the thoughts today. Thanks Steve.

    Lynda

  10. SFDBWV says:

    You are most welcome Lynda…

    I am praying no one has to endure lifes pains today, but that would be unrealistic for me to expect, however there is a day coming when God Himself will wipe away all tears. I, along with many, strain for that day.

    Steve

  11. SFDBWV says:

    I would also like to join with the others and welcome Mike to our blog.

    I hope your experiance over here is a possitive and growing one for you.

    Steve

  12. poohpity says:

    I believe God cares but I believe people are becoming indifferent to the needs of others. There have been so many that believe pull yourself up by your boot straps and get on with life or you have made your bed now lie in it, the compassion seems to be fading in much of our American churches and hearts. It seems that motives for getting help get questioned and folks become desensitized when they get so many people asking for help. God cares and gives comfort but people are developing hard hearts when they put themselves into the position of trying to judge a persons needs rather than just giving out what they have received.

  13. foreverblessed says:

    Welcome Wa5tkl, what terrible disaster has happened in your family life! You could lament like Jeremiah!
    At the rememebrance of the dead fallen in wars in our country, there is a national 2 minutes silence at 8 o’clock in the evening. This year, for the first time, in our main city Amsterdam, in the centre called the Dam, a man, clothed as a orthodox Jew started to scream a big cry, at the end of the 2 minutes.
    People got scared, and panicked, thought an attack happened. But it was only that scream.
    He was a confused man, but I thought he was in a way right: Give a big deep scream for all the deaths that happened in the Jewish families in the war. Did we lament for that? Did we scream about it? All these families being taken away and destroyed in ovens or in other ways. It is heartbreaking. The scream touched my heart, I had to cry that moment.

    It is God’s mercy that we can yet say: the faithfull love of God never ends.
    Somehow God will turn everything around, and all of it will have had a meaning.

  14. foreverblessed says:

    Thanks Mike for the topic. You wrote: God is caring for us in 3 ways, and I was searching what you meant. What 3 ways is God caring for me?

    OK, reading it again, you meant to say: think of 3 things that God did for you personally in caring for you.

    I look out of the window, and we have a garde, it is so full of all grades of new light green, and full of spring flowers. They show me that God will make everyting new in my life too. He gave me this beautifull garden. (I sometimes grumble because it takes a lot of work to keep the garden nice).
    That is one.

    Now I will make a cup of tea and think of 2 more, and praise God for it.

  15. poohpity says:

    I thank God today for the pain I suffer physically, grief of the loss of a loved one and being alone so that it is God who gives me comfort and I am learning to depend on Him alone. I thank God for the desire to read the bible daily so that it is Him I think about first every day. I thank God for the ability to understand who I am compared to Christ so that I will have compassion, empathy and forgiveness for those around me.

  16. SFDBWV says:

    If I was to think of the ways God has provided for me and mine, too quickly would the number surpass 3, on and on to an almost un-numbered figure.

    For there are an equal number of unknown provisions God has provided for me for every one I can count.

    For life, a life given to be of service to others and be able to give glory to God…these things God provides the ways and means for me to accomplish any at all.

    For love, that marvelous free act of will, recieved from others and given to many.

    The ground beneath me as well as the sky above, the sunrise, the rain.

    The warmth of comfort on a cold wet day.

    Family, friends, work….A day to rest.

    Music, poetry…the smile from a stranger.

    Unexpected help.

    The life and death of Jesus of Nazareth.

    An eternal home.

    Yes for me there is an un-numbered list of reasons to thank God for providing for my needs.

    He does them all because he cares….

    Steve

  17. foreverblessed says:

    Thanks Pooh and Steve, afcourse, Jesus is the best was given to me. That He stands for me and asks: Please let Me serve you, let Me fill you, let Me give you rest!
    How many things He wants to give me, it is endless!

    And even looking in my garden, I could have thanked Him for so many things, the purple colors of the flowers, the tiny animals flying there, in the little pond, the frog eggs, who are growing into tiny little frogs with big tales now, isnt’t that a miracle?, the worms doing their job in the sand, an endless list too.

    How great is our God, sing with me, How great how great is our God.
    How good He is for me!

  18. mikewittmer says:

    Thank you for inviting me into your community. I have been encouraged and stretched from reading your comments. I love the idea that we can be the arms of God to those who are walking through dark shadows. John Calvin said that God doesn’t usually minister to people directly, but often clothes himself with us. Martin Luther said something similar–we are the “mask of God” to others. You have challenged me to be the embrace of God to someone today. Thanks!

  19. marma says:

    This subject is a good one for me today. I’ve been thinking and praying for my family, most of whom don’t know the Lord, or even believe in God. Just got word my Uncle broke his hip–life goes on, they get older and death gets closer. They all know my sister and I are Christians, but conversations — real ones have been few. Made me feel like I was in a dark place today. Also realize spiritual warfare is going on, and that with God there is always hope–that He does miraculous things. I am thankful for His Spirit and His Word, dwelling in me to give me hope and courage. I’m thankful for my sister, too, my companion in the faith.

    Last couple of nights I’ve gone out with the dogs and noticed how the stars are always in their place. Such a sure sign of God’s faithfulness. There is something about that constancy–the unchangeableness of God–that brings comfort. I’ve long loved those verses in Lamentations. Greater appreciation for them now that I’ve studied Jeremiah a little bit.

  20. plumbape says:

    6You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. 8But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:6-8

    Thank You Jesus for such an unreasonable Love…!

  21. SFDBWV says:

    Would like to wish all the mothers out there this morning a Happy Mothers day.

    At the same time I pray for God’s comfort to all of you who are not mothers and wanted to be and all you mothers out here who have lost children to death.

    Once again as our new friend Mike has pointed out, As one may be happy another is heartbroken.

    Today I am happy for the mother I had. Her influence is still with me every day. I look forward to a happy reunion one bright day.

    If you can believe it, we had snow this morning, not much, just setting on the roof of the car and blowing in the cold wind….snow!!!

    Blessings
    Steve

  22. xrgarza says:

    Welcome Mike,

    Mart you are missed,

    Happy Mother’s day to all the Mothers out there in BTA Land ~ I love you.

    I’m in the fortieth year that my father passed away, and with my mother it’s only been a month and a half.

    Interesting, I’ve never felt that way however, for a moment years ago I felt a bit lost and alone, but once the Lord revealed Himself to me, I’ve had a sense of security. Because I know where they both are and that I have the assurance that one day I will not only see them but I will be with them.

    Not to mention, just like Christ lives in my heart, so do my parents. Just like I participate in communion periodically at church in remembrance of Him, I join my family for a dinner and a movie in remembrance of my parents.

    So in a sense it’s like they are still here with me.

    I have however, missed you all

    Xavier

  23. SFDBWV says:

    Rocky, I remember that feeling of being alone also. My parents died only 8 weeks apart, and for the first time in my life I felt alone against the world.

    Oh I had always felt I was strong and independent, I had a wife and a son who loved me a sister and two brothers. But not until I left the cemetery that day did I actualy feel that now it was only me….

    That has been 28 years ago, still I miss them and still I try to do as would please them both in my actions.

    Life for me like for all of us has been a journey of saying goodbye and learning new ways of hurting.

    Yet through them all, God has a strange way of strengthening us and giving us a peace that surpasses understanding.

    I feel very sorry for thoes who do not have that peace that the Holy Spirit gives us, our personal comforter and gift from Christ.

    For them, death is final. No hope, only grief.

    For us who have placed our trust in God and most importantly in Christ, We will see thoes whom we love again in a paradise so magnificent we can only imagine how wonderful it is.

    Steve

  24. Regina says:

    Good Afternoon, Fellow Bloggers,

    If you are a Mother, Happy Mother’s Day.

    Mike – You admonished us to thank God for three ways that He provides…
    1. I thank God for life (health), protection & provision.

    You also asked how I could be a channel of God’s love…
    I can be a channel of God’s love to someone by sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ, providing food, shelther, money, any material need, friendship, a hug, a smile, etc.

    Who is needing God’s love displayed through me?
    Everyone(Christians, disciples of Jesus Christ, and those who don’t know the Lord).

    Blessings,

  25. Regina says:

    Oh, and someone does care! His name is JESUS! :-)

  26. xrgarza says:

    Steve, Thanks for sharing, it brings me comfort, knowing that in my circle of friends/aquaintences I am not alone.

    Rocky

  27. Positive Thinker says:

    God Almighty God cares for us and is a jealous God because He loves us more than any other of His living creations. We must show we care for Him by doing His Will in our daily lives. We must put God above everything and place Him first above all. And by doing so He will show His Love for us by sending people into our lives who will also show that they care for us as we care for them in the right way and the way God wants us to live. Read The Holy Bible and God will give you the answer that you are searching for. Live by The Golden Rule. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

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