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We Have This Day

I’ve been thinking lately about inviting a guest blogger from time to time to give us a change of pace and some different perspectives to think about. So please welcome Mike Wittmer. He’s one of our regular bloggers at Our Daily Journey. Over the next couple weeks, we’ll be featuring a few of his posts and have also invited him to join in on the discussion! —Mart

Read: Psalm 118:19-29

This is the day the Lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it (v.24).

Debbie Middlemann was telling me about her mother, Edith, the 94-year-old widow of Francis Schaeffer. Francis wrote powerfully and often about the dangers of euthanasia and the gift of life, and now his wife and daughter were putting his beliefs into practice.

Debbie said that hospices in her country slowly euthanize their patients, giving them ever-increasing amounts of morphine as they prepare them for heaven. But Debbie would have none of it. She brought her mother home and insisted that she savor the life that was left—listening to her favorite albums and books and eating home-cooked meals.

When Edith noted that she was old and might not live much longer, Debbie reminded her that she had what any young person had—this day. None of us know if we will be alive tomorrow, but we do know that God has given us this day. What are we doing with it?

Life goes by fast, and its pace quickens as we age. An entire week now feels like a long afternoon did when I was a kid. Are we almost a decade removed from 9/11? Is my child already starting school? I graduated how long ago? “Your life is like the morning fog,” James says, “it’s here a little while, then it’s gone” (4:14).

Solomon responds to the brevity of life with sound advice: “Don’t let the excitement of youth cause you to forget your Creator. Honor Him in your youth before you grow old and say, ‘Life is not pleasant anymore’ ” (Ecclesiastes 12:1).

Now is our time. Don’t worry about tomorrow, for you might not be here anyway. Don’t put off until later what you can do now. We don’t know what the future holds, but we know that God has given us this day. How will you spend yours?

What friend, task, or duty have you been putting off? Procrastination is a form of disobedience. Do the right thing, and do it now.


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  1. SFDBWV says:

    “Today is the day the Lord has made be glad in it”
    “Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.”

    The fact is that right now this moment is all any of us have….here in this world.

    Try always to treat others as if this is the last conversation you will have with them, the last time you see them, the last time you can tell someone you love them.

    Kiss your wife or husband and children, tell a friend they are appreciated. Forgive an old enemy. observe nature and Thank God for all of His involvement in your life.

    If there are any who have not yet accepted the Lord as your sacrifice and savior….NOW is the time to do so.

    Unfortunately I have seen buried a great deal of regret…

    Steve

  2. SFDBWV says:

    I don’t know Debbie Middleman, nor Francis Schaeffer. I also am wondering what country Debbie lives in that legaly kills off people and try to cover it up with a prettier sounding word such as euthanize.

    I am under the belief that here in the USA, hospice nurses also do the same thing. Here of course it is illegal.

    The problem is of course who is it that decides when to *euthanize* and when not to.

    I can see a person who is in extreem pain and torment dying from cancer or burns who would want death and freedom from their suffering.

    But is it ever our decision?

    How short is the step from hospice to the general population at a nursing home, in making the same choice?

    The unique gift of life is always under attack by lifes enemy…..Abortion, murder, suicide….Many people have come to believe science in believing that life is everywhere out there in the universe. Not singularly special to Earth.

    But God thought life very special, and so should we. If God allows or decides for death to come, no power on earth can stop it….But is it ever our right to hurry it along?

    I think maybe the answer is not as clear as some may think.

    Steve

  3. Bob in Cornwall England says:

    Hi Mike and Steve,

    We have an ongoing debate over here about euthanazia and assisted suicide mainly becuase it is legal in Switzerland and many people go there to end there days.
    We have had lots of legal cases where couples want to make sure their partners will not be prossecuted for helping them to die.
    Our annual Dimblby lecture this year was given by the author Terry Prachet who has Alzheimer’s disease and would like the right to die with dignity.
    Very difficult subject and, as christians, we can easily take the “moral high ground”. I do believe that satan plays a big part in causing people to make the wrong decision about this so they will miss out on salvation.
    The sadest case I heard was of a young lad last year who had an accident while playing Rugby Union and was left parralised from the waist down, within a year he had gone to a Swiss clinic with his family and was helped to die.
    Seems he never wanted to live in such a state, but did he even give it a chance?
    Steve you, more than anyone here, understand all the emotions and heartbreak involved in this and have stood on The Rock of your faith and supported Matt through it all.
    We must never make it too easy for life to be exstiguished but all know it goes on in every Hospital and Care Home around the world.

    After my little heart scare the other week I agree entirely with Steve.

    “Today is the day the Lord has made be glad in it”
    “Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.”

    We tend to forget that as well as being reborn in Christ we were first born by Gods Will and would not have any existance without Him.

    Let’s thank God for every breath we have!!

    Bob

  4. foreverblessed says:

    I find this topic hard. Sometimes at the very end of a life, where there is a body decading, and terrible pain or other stress, what is so wrong about a little morfine to release the stress?
    My mother in law had such a thing, her heart failed, and then the lungs filled slowly with water.
    She did not want to go to the hospital, as she wanted to die. But she was drawning in her own fluid.
    Very, very hard ordeal, hard to get her breath. The doctor said he could do nothing, since she did not want oxygen. But what he could do, was give her a little bit of morfine to make her relaxed.
    And so she lived a few more days, being totally relaxed, while grasping her breath.
    Then afcourse, how much morphine is given, just a little bit more to make the breathing stop?
    On the other hand: giving oxygen is also slowing down the dying process. That is intervention too. what naturally should have happened.
    So why is giving oxygen not wrong while giving morfine is wrong Who draws the line?

    But Mike stated also: make this day your day.
    Well that day my mother in law did die, and I know that God intervened, and wanted it this way.

    And for me: Do this day what I have to do, do not postpone.

  5. foreverblessed says:

    Todays meditation of CH Spurgeon says:
    “And he requested for himself that he might die.”
    1 Kings 19:4 about Eliah.
    What ever we do, we as christians should do it while consulting our God and Father in heaven.
    It is God who is our director, the begining and the end.
    And afcourse, the today: This day, to rejoice in it.
    because we are not alone anymore, we belong to God, because of Jesus.

  6. mikewittmer says:

    You have put your fingers on the dicey part of this issue. Foreverblessed, I would say that there is nothing wrong with giving morphine to manage the pain, but I think that we overstep our boundary as the creature when we give morphine with the purpose of ending life.

  7. poohpity says:

    Excuse me today as I am speaking with after effects of the drugs used while doing a endoscopic procedure. With that in mind I was very frustrated by those who would assume that giving morphine that health care folks would use it to commit euthanasia. I have to admit there may be those who do but I do not find that anymore ghastly than professing Christians whose behavior reflects legalism that turns folks away from the Lord by all the should and shouldn’ts, do’s and don’ts.

    While my mom suffered with cancer the pain was so bad I will not even go into it but when she finally consented to receive it 10 days before her death it brought her much relief and I have struggled with it being the right thing to do. She had written her advanced directives and that is what I followed much to my breaking heart. Also because of following her wishes became the brunt of horrible treatment from my family. I only bring this up because who are each of us to say what we would do in any given circumstance unless we are in it. We are real good with advice and totally miss the heart in the manner.

    We can point people to procrastination or any other action we are not taking but yet where is the heart. God puts desires into each of us for His work. Are we not to ENCOURAGE one another to good works not guilt them into it. If we are not doing good works that is totally an issue with our faith and our relationship to God. The procrastination would be putting off living in vital union with our Creator which in turn will produce good works. Even that in it’s self, it is God’s voice calling us closer to Him and if we can not hear Him calling we may not be His in the first place.

  8. bubbles says:

    Sometimes, in some situations, individuals can become so overwhelmed with life’s circumstances they become alomost immobilized and do not do anything. When there are so many things that need to be done, some will/can
    not do anything for awhile. Is that procrastination?

  9. Angelica says:

    Hello everyone,
    I discovered Been Thinking About when I went to the RBC website looking for Our Daily Bread. I have enjoyed reading all of the posts and comments and so I have decided to register so that I too can participate in the discussions. Its nice to meet all of you and I look forward to learning and sharing about God’s word with you.

    I try to live in the now as much as possible. We are not promised tomorrow so it is important that we live each day as if its our last. There is a song that bought this very topic to my mind recently and its called Live like you are dying. It got me thinking and so I wrote in my journal that living like your are dying will help you put things into perspective. Do we have our priorities right? Do we really treasure that which is important or do we waste precious time worrying about or doing things that really don’t matter. My hope for when my life ends is that I lived my life in a way that pleases the Lord, that I did what he wanted me to do.

  10. Bob in Cornwall England says:

    Welcome Angelica,

    I hope you enjoy contributing to this blog and learn much, as I have, from the people here.
    You are right about “the now”
    God heals the past and looks after the future but NOW is the exceptable year of The Lord!
    I AM is the NOW God. He has no begining or end He is just I AM.

    Welcome again.

    Bob

  11. foreverblessed says:

    Welcome Angelica, what would I do if this was my last day? I would start the day, finding the peace as a child of God. Searching for the heart of Christ.

    And that is also what the person who is overwhelmed by all the things to be done should do:
    Stop doing anything, untill you have found the Rest in Christ again.
    Being so close to Him, knowing that I am His and He is mine.
    That is the stilness I can come to rest.
    And then, after I have found the rest again, He will help me to do the things I have to do.
    And if it would be my last day, I probably would not do the household chores, but would sing praises, and pray more, write notes to loved ones, etc.
    But today, I will wash the clothes, and after that sit down and come to my Lord again, enjoy the moment, and then go on to the next job, doing the garden, and after that sit down again, come to Him, and then cook dinner.
    My normal way of living (my old man) is to go on from one chores to the other, making even more jobs finished then was intented. And there goes the joy of the day.

    So that I do not want anymore: This is the day, enjoy it.
    very good theme!

  12. SFDBWV says:

    Welcome Angelica, I hope you enjoy your experiance here.

    When I read the books of wisdom, I come away feeling that a wise person prepares for their life as best they can.

    When I read the Psalms I am uplifted to another level of understanding, closer to God and more aware of the fact that life is about God and my need for Him as well as my need to honor Him.

    With the coming of Jesus and His teaching as well as the gift of the Holy Spirit, I am made aware that my life is for the service to all others as exampled by Christ.

    Each day as I rise and greet the sunrise, I have my morning time with God, asking for many things for the day, but surrendering them all to His will….This is today and my prayer is that His will is done in all matters great or small, for us…today.

    Steve

  13. SFDBWV says:

    The last month of my wife Rita’s life, she continued to baffle the doctors as to why she was not responding to treatment only getting worse.

    One week before her death either by mistake or on purpose someone administered too much pain medication for her and put her in the intensive care unit with pneumonia as a result of the overdose.

    There she remained in a state of drug induced uncousiousness. Towards the end they had to keep an IV drip going in order to keep her blood pressure up.

    She continued to swell up, filled with the IV fluids….The doctors continued to tell her mother and I that she could recover if she responded to the various emergency treatments they were giving her.

    Then in a more frank and private discussion with me alone, the doctor thought she may not live through the night and had no idea why she was dying.

    She had non-hotchkins lymphoma and had went through all the proceedures of kemo twice in an effort to save her life….only to develop ulcers and end up back in the hospital this last month I am speaking of.

    On the morning of October 20, 2000 her mother and I told the doctors to remove the IVs take away the ventilator and let her go.

    The last words she spoke to me was that she didn’t think she would get to come home and that she hoped Matthew would not forget her.

    My hats off to the medical proffession and their attempt to provide a longer and more productive life for us all, but their is a limit and a time to let go.

    Steve

  14. SFDBWV says:

    On June the 7th 1999 aprox 9:30pm my son Matthew wrecked his car, he was life flighted to the University Hospital in Morgantown WV.

    It was nearly midninght before Rita called me where I was working at the time, and told me the bad news.

    it was a long drive from Winchester Va to Morgantown. Somewhere between God spoke and told me “he will be fine”.

    After arriving at the hospital, Matt had been moved down to the ICU where I was met by Rita her mother, our Pastor and his wife and my foster daughter.

    They would not let me see Matt they didn’t like family being in their way.

    The neuro specialist who came out into the hallway to talk with Rita and I, told us that they needed to call in several specialists. However they were not going to as they considered he would die anyway. They gave him no pain relief…He had a fractured skull, broken neck, fracturered jaw, broken wrist and ankle and as we were to learn a year later two broken knees. Broken ribs abd a collapsed lung….yet no pain relief. They wanted to observe him…neurologicaly.

    When I informed the neuro specialist that Matt would not die, he simply looked at his watch and said “well we will know more about that in a few hours.”

    Then they let us see him.

    As soon as I entered the room I could feel Matt struggling to get up out of that bed….He was in a deep coma and kicking about with his right leg and right arm…in an attempt to get up.

    When he didn’t die as predicted by the medical staff, they finally sedated him and we spoke to the doctors only maybe once or twice after that.

    They kept him there in ICU for 27 days rigged him for a nursing home and after we arranged it discharged him to a rehab hospital….There were many supernatural events that occured during thoes 27 days but I will save them for another disscussion.

    Matt began to awaken from his coma while at the rehab hospital, but it is still nearl 11 years since the event and he continues to become more and more his old self mentaly.

    He has little use of the left side of his body and has to have help for a great many things.

    The first couple years of his recovery he thought that he would be able to get up and return to his life, even though he didn’t remember much of it.

    At some point he began to give up somewhat the hope of ever being able to walk again or remember his life…

    He began begging me to kill him, to “let him go”

    Like a tennis ball bak and forth he would ask for death and ask why did this happen to him. I would answer as best I could.

    I will never give up the hope for Matthew that he will be fine.

    Even though he asks for death all the time, he also gets up and pushes himself to the extreem every day. He does 400 reps with a 75 lb weight on a weight bench, 40 curls with a 40 lb weight each arm and 100 tricep reps with a 10 lb weight every day. and with my help walks some 200 feet every morning.

    When he asks for death, what he realy wants is a life apart from the horror he is forced to live.

    Each day is a gift for us both from God. We laugh, we talk, we touch. We are together….

    Are we headed for a world that a government regulation will decide who gets to live and who gets *euthanized*?

    Are we headed for a world were there is no God, only what humanity decides is best for itself?

    What will we do as Christians to give a better world to our children than the world we now live in?

    Well before all of my family troubles came, God had given me a word to ponder….Stand Fast….

    I will stand fast on the rock of my faith and no power in heaven nor earth will remove me from it.

    Steve

  15. Angelica says:

    Thank you Bob, foreverblessed and Steve for your warm welcome. Look forward to growing in Christ together.

  16. poohpity says:

    bubbles, I feel that way lately, immobilized, but that is not from the Lord it is depression setting in for me. The more I get out and do without expecting anything in return the emptier I get and the Lord fills me up again. I can do something today for someone and the Lord will give me strength. The more I sit in my little world I die piece by piece a little more everyday and the adversary is having a field day.

    Edmund Burke said, “‘The only thing necessary for the triumph [of evil] is for good men to do nothing.’ I have to say I have lived this and know it to be true. When I think I can not reach just one person for good today I better be bed ridden because otherwise satan has me by my spirit and is dragging me down until I am totally defeated.

    I only have today to bring glory to God and die to myself. So it is up to me to chose whom I will serve today and expect nothing in return except to be filled again for tomorrow if it ever comes.

  17. pegramsdell says:

    Today may indeed be the last day any of us have, so I want to thank all you fellow bloggers for the time we have had together on this website. And Mart for all the “days” he spent in prayer for this blog and for all of us. I love you all very much and pray for you pretty much every day. “This is the day the Lord has made and I will rejoice and be glad in it”. Have a super “day” in The Lord and be blessed. :) Peg

  18. phpatato says:

    Welcome Angelica!!

    What I would like to say on nursing homes – morphine – end of life care in my situation is alot. I wouldn’t know how to condense it.

    To quote: “Don’t put off until later what you can do now”.

    I understand there are people who procrastinate, but on the other side of the procrastination pole are the people who are suffer from “I can’t sit still for even a minute”. Is this as bad as procrastination? I have a sister and daughter who cannot/will not sit still. They actually feel guilty if they aren’t doing something physical. They put this drive down as being bored. What they are doing is burning the candle at both ends. My sister says that she wants to “get to the end sliding in sideways”. Sadly, to me, they are so busy acting like Rome WAS built in a day, that they are missing the smell of the flowers they are tending.

  19. pegramsdell says:

    ….and welcome Angelica. :)

  20. poohpity says:

    Instead of quoting Edmund Burke, the bible says in Ephesians 2:10 For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

    As we have discussed in the past it is the motive and to identify whether we are self serving or God serving that makes a difference. James 2:26 As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.

    It would seem that one small act done in kindness for the Lord is worth more than all the gold in the world.

  21. mrhsea says:

    Mike thanks for reposting from ODJ blog “We Have This Day” from Febuary 17, 2010. On the 18th of May 2010, I found it and was so very encouraged and found it impossible not to respond to LindyLou’s comment there. LindyLou comments that she is a hospice nurse, and believes that hospice comfort care is essential for a body to pass from this earthly existence to the hands of our creator. You can read her full comment there at ODJ. The following is a repost of my reply there sharing my concern for many who buy the lie that hospice comfort care is esesential for our loved ones.

    “LindyLou, I personally was so very encouraged by Mike’s devotional. I found myself in the same position as Debbie in his devotional just months ago, and I take offense to the statement that comfort care is essential for a body to pass from this earthly existence into the hands of our creator. I think God, our Creator may use a hospice comfort kit in some situations, but He is definitely not bound by it’s essential use. Nor should we assume every opportunity (age, health, financial burden, caregiver burdens, etc.) to be a reason for it’s use. Truly the Bible warns us of those who think they are doing God a favor.

    Morophine is only one of the comfort kit drugs. Some of which if used inappropriately, definitely can cause excruciating pain and not comfort, as was the case with my mom, Hospice USA.

    Though my mom, age 88 was sent home from a hospital stay with hospice by a well meaning unbelieving Dr., I responded as her caregiving daughter like Debbie looking for life each day as the day the Lord had made, and rejoicing in Him.

    Three months later hospice is gone and mom is rejoicing in God and His Word, daily finding her strength in Him. Six months now and she is able once again to fix her own meals, take a short walk, in general to be on her own once again. Praise and thanks to God the author of all life, and the One who in His own time will bring us to heaven. We are encouraged to wait for Him to the praise of His Glory alone.” mrhsea

  22. poohpity says:

    mrhsea, Although Hospice is not “essential” there are many who work with them who are Christians and do a job that many would not even think about doing. They have been beneficial to many families like mine with the care and concern of a loving family. It may have not been the best for you and your mom but please do not put them down for the help they are for many others. There are bad apples in every bunch but let’s not throw the whole bunch away.

    The reason I say this is because those of you who have posted about the bad things of Hospice those of us who may have open wounds with the recent loss of a family member may begin to doubt the decisions we have made and bring up sorrow and self doubt which is what it has done for me. So thanks for the sorrow and pain.

  23. xrgarza says:

    I knew I wasn’t going crazy, but I was being made to think that I was.

    My Mother who just passed away in March was in home hospice care for the last few months of her life. We were told that hospice was simply going to make her feel comfortable during her last days.

    We knew that Mom didn’t have much time left and we didn’t want to extend her life nor did we want to accelerate her departure.

    My Mother continually said that she was going to live to be 120.she still had a lot of energy, I believe that she still had some time left.

    I remember when my father died 40 years ago he to was on Morphine for almost a year, but he was also being fed through an I.V.

    They would not allow my mother to be fed through an I.V. We were told that she was so far gone they could not justify an I.V. We were then told that as soon as she stopped eating that she would be gone within 10 days or so.

    My poor Mother went almost 40 days without eating, I was the one administering the Morphine and all of the other comfort medication. I told them that I felt like I was Dr. Kevorkian, they continued to assure me that this was totally a safe and normal process & that I was not killing my mother that it was her time.

    Ugggg, how did this happen? Oh Lord please forgive me.

    Xavier

  24. poohpity says:

    Rocky, in 2001 my mom was in ICU for almost three months on morphine and pulled through. Please do not listen to those who have implied they are the death patrol. Please do not do that yourself or the folks that run Hospice. You did not kill your mom. Each life is in the hands of God if it is not someones time go they will pull through. I believe that each person is giving their opinion and at times are not sure of the effect it has on others. I have cried all morning thinking that I may have made the wrong decisions about my mom because of what people said on this blog but the Lord reassured me that He is still God and at times people will try and prolong life when God is ready to bring someone home. It would seem better to encourage each other in the times when we really do not know what is the best decision. It would be like the difference in Jobs friends offering their opinions as to why Job was suffering which resulted in more suffering rather than them just sitting with him and understanding the pain he was feeling. Rocky you did the best you could do and I stand with you in your decisions my friend and I understand how you feel. Love Deb

  25. xrgarza says:

    Thank you Deb, I needed to hear that. It really has been a struggle for me not knowing what really happened or what I really did to my mother.

    God Bless you for your encouraging words.

    Love
    Rocky

  26. poohpity says:

    I understand completely. I feel the same way and do not need someone to load more on my shoulders than they already bear. You are respected and loved.

  27. phpatato says:

    Deb and Rocky

    Our Dear Father knows our hearts and motives. Everyone who carries the responsibilty of making the decisions for their loved one’s final days are obviously going to do what they feel is right. Each pro and con and every medical opinion is considered. These are heart-wrenching decisions and and after much prayer, we do what we feel in our hearts is right…God’s Will. Our precious Lord knows the weight this burden has. Rest in the knowledge that you did your best and know that He loves you for that.

    This issue as with all issues have different sides. It’s all about EACH person and what God leads them to do. How can there be a right side and a wrong side if we prayerfully seek His face and do what He leads us individually to do.

    Love, Pat

  28. poohpity says:

    Thank you Pat!!

  29. poohpity says:

    My mom left me with her wishes and asked that they be followed and I did but that still does not take away the questions one gets confronted with and finger pointing.

  30. Bob in Cornwall England says:

    Rocky,

    I was lucky in the fact that my mother died quickly of cancer and had no pain and needed no morphine.
    She died within three weeks of going into hospital and was totally aware until the end.
    Her mother, my gran, died in severe pain and was ill for months. my mum talked to me once about it and asked if God really existed why did He allow that to happen to such a good person. I know in my heart that my mum wanted to experience that pain to, that is why she refused to take any pain medicine, but God, in His wisdom, did not allow her to suffer in the same way. You could tell she had no pain and was at peace with the thought of death. The nurses were amazed she needed no drugs.
    I never really gave my mother the bests attention at this time and found it difficult to deal with her sickness and often feel guilty about that, but I seem to remember you gave almost all your time to your mom when she needed you most and felt, at the time, you were doing the right thing. God will Bless you for honouring your mom, don’t let satan or anyone else tell you different now. he(satan) will try any means to take away God’s Blessing from you.
    Like Steve, stand firm on the Rock of your Salvation and Faith and let no power in Heaven or Earth take it from you.

    Bob

  31. mrhsea says:

    My empathy with those whose hearts I have troubled. Remember in my comment above, I said that God may indeed use a hospice comfort kit in some situations. My dad was attended by hospice nurses at his death and my mom is certain that God answered her prayer to spare him much indignity and pain.

    Having done some study on euthanasia, I find it a slippery slope for Christians to believe hospice comfort is essential for all, and is to be expected as the norm. Everyone must be fully persuaded in his own heart and mind in each individual case.

    May God bless us all!

  32. SFDBWV says:

    Deciding when death comes…..

    I watched a story on “The History Channel” a few weeks back about the “Shroud of Turin”.

    I had read about this mysterious cloth 30 plus years ago and have watched with intrest the debate over it for a long time.

    What stood out for me in this go around was the pathologists comments about how brutal and cruel the injuries were to the man in the shroud, he stated it was the sort of injuries one might see from a horrific automobile accident. Speaking of course about the bruises and bloody apperance of this man.

    No one would choose such a death for themselves or someone they loved…..

    It is no wonder Jesus sweated drops of blood the night before His execution. Knowing what lay ahead for Him.

    My father-in -law suffered a series of strokes. The result was that we sat up a hospital bed in his living room and his wife and I took care of him.

    How long he might live was unknown to the doctors, but the choice was either nursing home or his home.

    While he couldn’t talk well he could at this point talk. I ask him if he had made peace with God and accepted Christ…His reply was that it was a hard thing to do.

    He was a good ole fellow, liked to drink and was a very social person. But never had been a church goer or gave any effort to decide for Christ….So here he lay, awaiting death.

    My Pastor began daily visits to Curly ( father in law)and it was a wonderful day that while Curly was still able to talk some, that he accepted Christ.

    My mother in law (Crick) was also at this point un committed to the Lord as was my wife Rita.

    After some weeks, Crick ask me why Curly was still suffering, why hadn’t God let him die and ease his pain.

    I told Crick that Curly was no longer suffering life for himself but for her and Rita. They too had to come to terms with God.

    This realization along with the love and devotion from others led Crick to the Lord, and began Rita toward the same outcome….Curly passed peacfully with his wife daughter and our Pastor at his side.

    I must always remember that it is God who is in charge of life as well as when death will come…None of us do.

    If you choose for a painless death for your loved one, that is wonderful that you can. Never feel bad for easing your loved ones suffering…God will still control that last breath.

    Since this is a topic about “having this day”, just remember that today, if you can, tell the people you love that you love them, and make others around you glad they were a part of your day.

    Steve

  33. plumbape says:

    It doesn’t matter what happened yesterday, last week, last month or last year; today is a new day. This moment, you have the power to make a change in your life. Things may be bad all around you. People may be negative, complaining and discouraged, but don’t let that spirit rub off on you. Instead, choose to bless the Lord at all times. Let His praise continually be in your mouth. Remember, the path of the righteous is like the light of dawn shining brighter and brighter until the full day.

  34. poohpity says:

    I think that may be where the problem lies with putting euthanasia and hospice comfort care in the same sentence. Hospice did not euthanize my mom. My mom decided to put her life in God’s hand and not be sustained by artificial means as in if she could not eat that she opted to not be fed by a feeding tube, if she could not breathe she did not want to be on a respirator, if her heart did not pump on it’s own she wanted no help. She did not want to be kept alive my scientific means. She asked only for pain management after going through 9 months of sever pain with her cancer.

    Euthanasia is a whole other topic and should never be considered as what hospice does in my opinion. There are many believers who have been given the gift to work with people in the end stages of life and would be very offended by someone who would put euthanasia in the category of what they do. I am also offended by categorizing what they do as euthanasia. Euthanasia is physician assisted suicide.

  35. poohpity says:

    Good words ape!!!

  36. tandgmartin says:

    If we did indeed know today was our last day in this life, naturally we’d all probably think of some things we would or wouldn’t do, simply because it’s our last day. But that’s obviously not God’s will for any of us, since none of us ever know. Also, if we would be changing anything, making sure there were things we didn’t do,(and I’m talking to myself here more than anyone), then we probably need to reevaluate how we spend the time that is given to us. I believe God wants us to be doing our normal, everyday duties as Christians to the best of our abilities ANY day of our lives, including our last.

  37. poohpity says:

    Amen!!

  38. xrgarza says:

    Thank you Pat and Bob, I have truly been comforted this week.

    I love you all.

    Rocky

  39. foreverblessed says:

    Thank you all for your stories of the last moments of loved ones.
    And for all your encouragement to live by the day, to live it with our God, He is beside us, under us around us, and in us.
    Colossians 2:6-7
    6So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, 7rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.

  40. Angelica says:

    Thanks to all who extended me a warm welcome to this blog.

    Whether a catastrophe is an oil spill, hurricane, tornado, earthquake, flood etc. we all need to remember that God is in control. In most cases we can’t prevent a tragedy from happening but we can choose how we respond to them. We can choose to trust God or allow stress and uncertainty to overtake us. How will you choose to respond?

    Hopefully, the “world” will see that man is limited in what he can do. Hopefully, they will see that we truly need to put our trust and faith in God and not man.

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