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Don’t be Like Them?

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In Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount he told his followers not to be like the religious leaders who did acts of piety, gave to the poor, and prayed—all to be seen and honored by others (Matt 6:1-8). To this he adds, “That’s what they do. Don’t be like them. They have their reward.”

But are we, even at this point in our life, really that different? After many days, years, or decades of following our Savior, aren’t we still a mixed bag? Isn’t part of us still just like those “bad actors”, while another part of us longs to be different?

Thankfully, in the mind of God we are declared completely different the moment we fall in with his Son. But, in practice, isn’t it a matter of degree depending on, at any given moment, how much of ourselves is resting or working in the Spirit of God?

Seems to me that the part of us that longs to be different might be explained in one of two ways. It might be a remnant of being created in the likeness of God that causes us to aspire to be better than religious people who do what they do “to be seen by others.” Or the part of us that doesn’t want to be “performing for the crowd” could be evidence of the Spirit of Christ who was given to us when we put our faith in the Son of God.

In either case, when we hear our Lord saying things like, “That’s what they do. Don’t be like them. They have their reward,” isn’t that our signal? Doesn’t that become our chance to remember why he said things to his disciples like, “Behold, we are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and to the scribes; and they will condemn Him to death, and deliver Him to the Gentiles to mock and to scourge and to crucify. And the third day He will rise again” (Matt 20:18-19)?

And isn’t it in the next moment that we need to hear him say, “Remember”… “Without me you can do nothing” (John 15:4-5)?


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18 Responses to “Don’t be Like Them?”

  1. SFDBWV says:

    Mart, Isn’t it all a matter of the heart?

    Why do we profess Christ publicly? To give ourselves some public immage, or to give credit and pay homage to our Lord?

    Jesus said in Matthew 10:32 whosoever confesses Him before men, He will confess before His Father in heaven.

    So we are instructed/encouraged to openly confess our Lord….. yet warned not to pray in public, or make ourselves appear *holy* in order to gain praise from others.

    So this entire matter becomes where our heart is…

    We are told to not let one hand know what the other is doing in the giving of alms and charitable doing, for the same reason. So that we are not doing so, in order to gain public approval or credit for our acts of charity.

    This may seem like an easy line not to cross, but I would think at some time or another we are all guilty of enjoying being publicly praised for things we feel we did well or things we feel are important to us.

    Yet we also should not hide our/His light under a bushhel. We are also instructed and encouraged to be public about our faith, works and attitude in this statement as well (Matt 5:14,15,16).

    The purpose being to glorify God….not ourselves.

    Steve

  2. Mart De Haan says:

    Good a.m. Steve, thanks for your good thoughts.

    To keep the idea going, one of the things I’ve been weighing is that we can lose touch with reality– as strange as that may seem– if we don’t continually remember that “the flesh” (as personified in Jesus’ religious enemies) has not been changed– even after we have been declared a “new creation in Christ”.

    We now have “the seed” of God in us (which cannot sin) (1John 3:9). But all of the same inclinations remain intact– to be displaced by the Spirit in moments and degrees of Christlike faith, hope, and love.

  3. SFDBWV says:

    Oh yes Mart we remain at war with our old nature, it trying to regain control of us all of our lives….

    I would that it would be so simple that once we accept Christ into our hearts that we would be finished and complete…But that just isn’t the way it is.

    It is the struggle of the ages….good over evil. With us the prize as well as the vessel through which the power of good slowly grows stronger.

    It reminds me of trees….the softer or weaker trees tend to grow too fast, whereas the tougher hardwoods grow slowly.

    Thaks for the feedback, and for your insight and guidence.

    Steve

  4. rxman says:

    Great topic for discussion.

    I believe that our old nature or old man is crucified with Christ when we are born again. I also believe that we battle with satan and our flesh for the rest of our lives.

    That being said, I think the way that we deal with the day-to-day living that we all must do is by putting on the whole armor of God. Each and every day. That is our part in the battle. God’s part is to lead us into the battle everyday. As Jesus said, “without Me, you can do nothing.”

    We all want affirmation in what we say and do. I guess it all depends on who we get it from, the world or from the Spirit of God.

  5. CruixfiedinChristPJ says:

    This is a powerful rebuke to the way the world looks at religion. John 15 is the abide chapter and it reminds me that without Him I can do nothing. However, we must continually remember that we are crucified with Christ and that we no longer live for the flesh but by and for the Lord Jesus Christ. God help our unbelief that we may show forth you light in a way that only You can do.

  6. poohpity says:

    As Steve cited Matthew 5:16, “In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven”. It seems there is a fine line between just doing good for the sake of doing good and at other times seeking the praise of men to be noticed and affirmed. So being noticed or being an example to follow. Is there both in us, I would have to say yes at times.

    I think when I look inside I really get upset at the times I do things to get noticed. I know it is because I had to earn approval from those who said they loved me. It seems as long as I preformed I got atta girls and love. It has taken a while to understand and much tears to realize that I do not have to earn the Love of the God. Not being busy trying to earn love has given me the freedom to show love. I do not know if that makes sense to anybody else.

    Realizing that I will never reach perfection or reaching for the praise of man I never really get what I need emotionally except from God. When I understand myself and why I behave as I do it opens the way to see how much we do need to encourage each other not just believers but all peoples. Then as the religious crowd of Jesus’s time and ours too I do feel at times superior to others in some ways but I know that is my own insecurities. But God always brings me back to reality about how not superior I really am and it hurts. I wish I could say I would like to avoid that pain but obviously I still repeat the same mistakes.

    It would be nice to just encourage each other in our faith and not strive to know more or to be better than anyone else but I still do it and hate every moment of it. Thank You Jesus for understanding us and loving us in spite of ourselves.

  7. rokdude5 says:

    There is an expression that says, “There isnt anything more common than the need to feel special and different.” A lot of us, in order to FEEL special and different will DO things that in extreme cases, are quite odd to the rest of us. The difficult part is to accept that in God’s eyes we ARE special and different and just rest in the fact that God created us that way.

    Once we are in that place, we no longer need to be “different” but to be right before God. Granted, I know I have missed the mark on many occassions. Yet I know its best to be meek and humble and give God all the glory. RJ

  8. BruceC says:

    Mart,

    I haven’t been here for quite awhile. While doing my daily devotions on RBC I decided to drop in and come back. Your comment on the “new creation” in Christ caught my eye and thoughts. We recently attended a church where someone in a “position” put forth that very concept; but with a different twist. That the things that used to bother us(family problems, relationships, etc.) are not supposed to be there anymore and should be gone. I agree with your view; that God sees us as new creations; just as he sees us clothed with the righteousness of Christ; though we could never be righteous in the flesh. And so our flesh will continue to nag at us until we are all home with Christ. It left me with a feeling of someone looking down their nose at me as if I didn’t “get it”.
    I do get it, just not the way they interpret it.

    BruceC

  9. foreverblessed says:

    BruceC, welcome back! Nice to hear from you again!

    This also counts for the other christians in Christ. They still have the old man, and I have to look at the new creation. It took me some time to handle this.
    To see that my own old man is still there, but also in the brothers and sisters in Christ around me.
    So I have to look at others with the eyes of Christ, the good part. And not only the born in Christ people, but also on all people around me, look at the good in them, focus on the good part. Phillipians 4:8 which does not mean that we have to deny the bad, but thinking I would in so doing deny the truth I would not do focus on the good. But now I see I can do that, God will handle the bad parts.

  10. saled says:

    Yes, I find myself a mixed bag, part of me just like the Pharisees, and part of me longing to be different. I wonder if this longing to be different is what Jesus was talking about in Matthew 5:6 “Blessed are they who do hunger and thirst after righteousness; for they shall be filled.”

    The first time I read today’s topic I thought Mart mentioned something about the danger of not being in touch with reality. When I went back to look for the comment, I couldn’t find it. However, I think the people in the church that BruceC describes are not in touch with reality. How many of us have been discouraged upon dealing with the reality that becoming a Christian did not give us a perfect life? It’s taken me a long time to come to realize that the important thing may not be getting it all together.

  11. BruceC says:

    saled,

    I completely agree. I have seen those who also did not “have it all together” and because the church they attended had folks there that acted like they did they left and never went back. I think that some of the maybe more mature in Christ fall into a trap of the flesh and get a superior attitude(not all).
    Christ told us not to be like the Pharisees because they wore their own righteousness and unfortunately some of our brother and sisters do the same. I think some lack understanding and compassion in this area.
    We have to sure not to have either a superior or inferior attitude towards ourselves and others. It can be very harmful.

    BruceC

  12. poohpity says:

    Hey there BruceC, good to hear from you again. Welcome back!! :-)

  13. Hisgirl4life says:

    When I think about my sinful, flesh nature which has a bent toward seeking approval, applause or recognition and the comments of Jesus Mart shared, one verse came to mind right away.

    John 3:30: “He must become greater, I must become less.”

    I believe God knows what is truly in the deepest part of my heart; whether I am truly and humbly seeking Him, surrendering my life for His glory or for my own. He desires me to give Him my best effort and He’s capable of accomplishing the rest.

    Sometimes, I believe as Christians, we can get so blinded and consumed by attempting to follow every rule and every verse with our own short-sided human effort that we forget it is OK to encourage the body of Christ. Sadly, some churches I’ve attended are afraid to applaud at children’s programs, recognize true servanthood within the body of Christ (even privately). I think this is sad.

    Granted, perhaps there are those, like the religious leaders of the Bible, that air their acts of service in hopes of public praise. Again, God knows our hearts intimately and every desire within. That in itself can be sobering.

    Sometimes, I can almost here Him saying, “Way to go!” “I’m so proud of you!” “That’s my girl!” Thankfully, He’s not keeping a record of all of my failures. I hope that is a huge encouragement to all of us…

  14. Bob in Cornwall England says:

    On Wednesday, at the boating lake where I work, I had a very large family of Orthodox Jews wanting boats all at once. Apart from feelling sympathy with Moses and how he coped in the wilderness with such a bunch of people, I was struck by several things that cover this topic.
    They were all dressed the same, in black and white, with all the hats and tassels etc. (they looked a lot like Aimish people in the USA look)
    They stood out in the crowd and have been seen at our local Navy air show and I saw some in the supermarket Thursday, so they are “shinning their light” so to speak as a different people and have been noticed by everyone locally.
    I wondered what it was like to be so bound up in The Law and tradition, I just wanted to share the freedom that Jesus brings and tell them that they were “missing out” on what God had planned for them. I didn’t!!
    They seemed a nice bunch although most had trouble speaking English, they live in London but in a “closed” community.
    They are God’s chosen people stuck in a time warp and in the law, not seeing what God really wants for them.
    Are we any different to them, stuck in the traditions of “christianity” and in our own culture.
    At the end of the day I can only be me and react as myself to what God wants from me.

    Luke 6:45 (Amplified Bible)

    The upright (honorable, intrinsically good) man out of the good treasure [stored] in his heart produces what is upright (honorable and intrinsically good), and the evil man out of the evil storehouse brings forth that which is depraved (wicked and intrinsically evil); for out of the abundance (overflow) of the heart his mouth speaks.

    All we can do is put on the mantle of Christ and allow God to speak and work through us, sometimes this will mean being showy and letting people know who and what we stand for and other times it will mean not being noticed at all.
    I was washing down the patio at the Lakeside Cafe on Thursday and also talking to the park keeper. I said “I used to scrub the mud off with a brush but don’t anymore because no one notices.” then a little voice in my head said “I notice!”
    If we do everthing as if it is for Jesus and Him only then we should get that ballance between when to be seen and not.

    Bob

  15. Bob in Cornwall England says:

    Mart,
    I like the picture of the ducks, they are the same type we have at the lake and they follow me arround every morning waiting for some food, about 50 of them, with chicks.
    It makes me feel so good and that these cute little birds rely on me and are so nice and you can see good in there little alert eyes.
    I also have seagulls that try and take the food, they fight and scrap amongst themselves and have evil and greed in their eyes.
    It is what is in our hearts that counts and shows through into our actions.
    If we store good treasure then we will have good in our eyes etc., but if we store evil then evil will come out of us.

    Bob

  16. Mart De Haan says:

    Bob, that’s interesting. Some animals, birds, and even insects do seem to have a nature of either innocence or evil don’t they….

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