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Still Trying to See What Matters

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It seems increasingly clear that wisdom involves the ability to see what matters in the middle of confusing and conflicting information.

But what keeps unnerving me is the realization that when it comes to seeing what matters, it’s so often something that cannot be seen by our natural eyes and understanding.

We talked about this some when we looked at the Apostle Paul’s prayer that God would give his readers the ability to understand how much God loves them (Eph 3:14-21). We thought together about why Paul would ask God to open eyes, if it didn’t take God’s help to see beyond what we already think we get.

But now, it also seems that when I try to think about anything that really matters in life I end up realizing that it’s more than seeing the value of the person, relationships, God, the Bible, Jesus, faith, hope, and love. In every case, seeing what really matters requires a context, and the help of God.

It’s not just an issue of what matters, but rather seeing how much we need God’s help even to really understand, and find perspective, in what matters.

Interestingly, the Scriptures seem to merge both—as when it urges us to do as much as God enables us to what we can—while also depending on what only God can do in, around, and through us (Philip 2:12-13).

Then I read Paul’s words to Timothy, “Consider what I say, and may the Lord give you understanding in all things.” (2Tim 2:7)

Seems like this is something to keep thinking and talking together about.


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  1. BruceC says:

    Reminds me of how I feel when I see scenes of diaster and starvation on Tv. Like Joplin, Darfur, Japan; etc. I sit and think about how much I would give and what good I could do if I were wealthy. But when the Body of Christ springs into action it isn’t just the leg. Its the entire Body; limbs, eyes, etc. I ask the Lord to “show me” why I can’t do more and He shows me. If His love is to be shown it must come from all the members; not just a few. Then He will get the glory throught His church. We just have to do what we can, with what we have, and where we are; and leave the rest of the details to God.

    God Bless everyone!

    BruceC
    Soli Deo Gloria!

  2. remarutho says:

    Hello Mart & Friends!

    As I suspected, Mart, you are suggesting that there is more going on here than I first believed!

    You wrote:

    “It’s not just a matter of what matters, but rather what really matters when we (are) faced with the need to know what we are to do, and what God alone can do.”

    Paul writes to the church at Philippi (Philippians 2:12-13). He writes, probably from a prison cell, that he is still offering them leadership — something even the church leaders may doubt on account of his disgraceful circumstances. He urges them not to become proud or bossy but to pull together as the church. There is considerable disunity and opposition in and around the church at Philippi.

    The thirteenth verse of Philippians 2 describes the character of God at work in the context of the congregation (paraphrase): By God’s Spirit, the personal and corporate will of God’s people is transformed to desire what God desires. When we can put aside the strong distractions of the worldly way, we will feel the Lord’s pleasure in our work together. It is God’s work in us, not our own work at all.

    Can we even see what really matters before we ask for the Lord’s guidance in every particular?

    In Him,
    Maru

  3. florida7sun says:

    Throughout the Old Testament we see the importance of establishing markers to record God’s faithfulness to us and future generations.

    Our faith is a gift from Him, and it is vitally important we remember how He has already touched our lives. In so doing, we can step out in confidence and not be unnerved as we face today or take a walk into the unknown.

    For we do know the unknown; we have His Word. “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” – Hebrews: 11:1

    Even the heavens declare His Glory. He is seen in every aspect of life, for He is life.

    If we lack any iota of faith, all we have to do is ask Him to increase our faith.

    I have discovered it is wonderful to be alone with Jesus; just Him in quietness of soul. He is eager to give us His peace. He is in control. He does not desire us to be unhinged or anxious.

    The Apostle Thomas was a leader among the disciples. Yet, he doubted Jesus’ resurrection and set down his rules of engagement, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe it.” – John 20:25

    Jesus then responded, and Thomas believed. He was transformed forever. “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” – John 20:29

    Our Savior knocks on the door of every person’s heart. If we have doubts or are unnerved in any way, all we have to do is ask Him to come in and give us His assurance.

    He is faithful. His Spirit will guide us.

    Grace and peace, Ray

  4. tracey5tgbtg says:

    Maru – you wrote: Can we even see what really matters before we ask for the Lord’s guidance in every particular? Amen to that!

    2 Corinthians 5:7 We live by faith, not by sight. Everyday we have something new to learn. God’s mercies are new every morning. God is leading us through this journey of life on earth until we are at home with Him, and as Mart says in the opening, or at least what I hear him to be saying, we always come to the conclusion that there is more to know than we thought we knew.

    This morning’s My Utmost for High Highest touches on this.

  5. poohpity says:

    I guess for me the only thing that really matters is knowing God. It is nothing I can do but I do make the choice of picking up His Word everyday and asking God what is it you want me to learn. Today it is the book of Hosea which God revealed that He needs me to need Him above all else. That I am unfaithful to God alone when I put anything else above Him in my life especially when it comes to things I seem to want to call another’s attention to. God does not need my help in that area especially since God’s knows our hearts and knows when to reveal something to us in His timing and in His way and for the good of that person. I have no clue about that, if I do not really know what is beneficial for me how can I know what is beneficial for someone else but God knows.

    Romans 12:2-21 helped out a lot for my understanding today as well and that is truly what matters.

  6. dodi says:

    Hi Mart & all……
    Jesus said that a cup of water given in His name would not go unrewarded / he even mentioned about the widow who gave two mites out of her poverty not out of her abundance /every hair on our head is numbered (how important we are to Him that our very hairs are numbered)
    / when a tiny sparrow falls to the ground he takes notice / it matters to Him.

    Mother Teresa once said “if you can’t feed a million you can at least feed one”. I so believe Christ see’s the hug we gave today / the smile we shared / the sincere compliment or the encourage-able word we shared / the card we sent / or the prayer of intercession we offered up. Yes the big things matter also, the horrible storms that wrecks havoc in people’s lives / unemployment / death of a loved one, etc…..

    Little things / big things / Christ see’s them all, and what really sometimes scares me the most is…… He not only see’s the big things and the little things He also see’s my heart, the very motive and intents of my heart. (Psalms 121: He neither sleeps nor does he slumber) (Job 36:7) He never withdraws his eyes from the righteous)
    If any of us are to be an instrument for God’s good & glory, and if we ask Him to remove the scales from our eyes just as he did A.Paul, then His grace will open our eyes & souls to discern the most important matters. But as you said Mart, we must ask and then grace will move in and self will move out.

  7. bratimus says:

    Everything that is good, matters

  8. poohpity says:

    In the middle of conflicting and confusing information sounds like what Paul taught in Col 2:8 “Don’t let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ.” actually all of Col 2:6-15. I guess being thankful for what really matters, is that all our sins were nailed to the Cross and who can argue and fight over that. It is the one thing that can bring us together in unity and love.

  9. royalpalm says:

    Mart, you said,”But … when it comes to seeing what matters, it’s so often something that cannot be seen by our natural eyes and understanding”.

    Jesus told the Samaritan woman at the well, “God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” John 4:24. We live in the physical world where we use our senses to perceive but the spiritual realm can only be seen and understood through eyes of faith, as revealed in the Scriptures. It is not easy to concentrate on what I do not see. I need God to constantly remind me that this is where my focus should be and to act in relation to it… “For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal”.2 Corinthians 4:18

  10. remarutho says:

    Hello Mart & Friends!

    It seems to me as Paul writes to encourage his young pastor friend in 2 Timothy chapter 2, he is sharing his long experience in planting and sustaining churches among Jews and pagans. Any and all require a huge shift in thinking and perceiving!

    You wrote:

    “In every case, seeing what really matters requires a context, and the help of God.

    It’s not just an issue of what matters, but rather seeing how much we need God’s help even to really understand, and find perspective…”

    The issues of context and perspective seem vitally important this morning. Imagine that pastor in a Kenyan village studies 2 Timothy 2:1-26 with a group of church members — and meanwhile, on the other side of the world a pastor in Chicago studies the same passage with a small group. There is no way that the action plan for service to the community, mission to the lost and correcting believers will be the same in the two separate contexts. Both churches will engage in the same Christian acts of service, mission and teaching right where they are — but in very different ways.

    The Holy Spirit faithfully breathes upon the Word — and transforms the minds and hearts of God’s servants according to the context in which we live and according to the perspective of prevailing tradition and culture. The Lord is at work “revealing Himself to those who did not ask for me; being found by those who did not seek Him.” (Isaiah 65:1-7)

    Blessings,
    Maru

  11. saled says:

    There is a lot to think about in these verses, Philippians 2:12 + 13. First Paul tells us to “. . . work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.”
    Then he says “For it is God who worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.” This is the mystery: while we are working out our salvation, it is God who is working in us. And this sounds like both our will and our work are of God.

    And just what is ‘will’? Is it spirit? In John 3:8 when Jesus is speaking to Nicodemus he says, “The wind bloweth where it willeth and thou hearest the sound of it, but canst not tell from where it cometh, and where it goeth; so is every one that is born of the Spirit.”

    Is spirit all that matters? Does matter(familiar noun from science class) ever matter?

  12. bubbles says:

    saled, I’m sure you know this, but the man who made the comment about more than one way to arrive at a particular store was telling us that people may solve problems differently (in Math) and arrive at the correct answer. He was not being liberal in referring to salvation, although I can see where it could be assumed people would carry it over into other areas. Thank you for pointing out the danger in that comment if it is no clearly explained.

  13. poohpity says:

    I have noticed in life that what I thought mattered at one time may not be as important now. In the community I reside in there are different sections, one is the family side and the other was penciled out to be over 55 or disabled. While the family side is still the family side the over 55 side had to redo their thoughts because some of the over 55 had to take in grandchildren or the disabled also brought children in. The older families that have children are really treated badly for having children on the adult side and the gossip can be deadly sometimes. I guess the older people get the more set in their ways they become not realizing that we are all just thankful to have a place to live.

    I think that is true with our faith too! The newer Christians are so on fire about what Christ did for them on the Cross and are like sponges to gain more information about Him. While it seems the older we are in faith the more gossipy and backbiting there is because I think we do not remember where everything comes from. The genesis of our knowledge, faith, wisdom, value, and spiritual gifts is a direct result of being rooted in the Lord.

    We are all on this journey together but we have lost sight of what really matters. I just love people that are over 75 they have gone back to the very basics and hold on to what really matters and understand that there is some stuff that is really not that important anymore. They do not get so upset about trivial things anymore and just except people and things they way they are and rest in the care of the Lord. I do not want to wait until I am 75 to be like that, Lord please help us to not only see or say what is important but to live it.

  14. poohpity says:

    To me when the bible says “work out YOUR own salvation with fear and trembling” that is to remember what was the root of my salvation. Christ crucified for my sins. If I keep my eyes focused on the fact that I could do nothing to earn my salvation then I will live with a grateful heart and do things that reflect that gratitude. Knowing what was my penalty for sins yet I received unmerited divine mercy. That makes me tremble and revere the glorious gift I have been given.

  15. poohpity says:

    I was thinking that no one has done more damage to me or that I have done to others than what we have done against our Savior yet He still forgives and shows us grace and mercy.

    There are so many times if people new what I really felt towards them they would smile like how I feel about Steve. I have always respected and admired him for being such a wonderful caregiver, husband and member in his community and just because I ask questions or challenge some thoughts does not take away what I have known about him over the past three years that respect and admiration is still there and I love him and his family.

  16. saled says:

    bubbles, I wish I lived next door to you and we could have a conversation about that math workshop you attended. I work as a remedial math and reading ed tech and attend many workshops, but had not heard of that one. When I posted my response to your original post about the speaker, I was not thinking about the phrase “more than one way to arrive at Wal-mart” being applied to salvation. This is what I mean when I talk about the curse of the tower of Babel still being in effect: there is often a big difference between what we think we communicate and what other people hear us say.

    It’s like pooh says above: “. . . if people knew what I really felt towards them they would smile . . .” Real understanding is real work, it doesn’t come easy. Reminds me of the old Bee Gees song “Smile an everlasting smile” It’s only words but words are all we have to reach out to each other on this site.

  17. Regina says:

    Good Evening All

    BruceC, I can totally relate to your comment, “Reminds me of how I feel when I see scenes of diaster and starvation on Tv. Like Joplin, Darfur, Japan; etc. I sit and think about how much I would give and what good I could do if I were wealthy.”

    So often, I’ve wanted to be able to help people who are suffering in unimaginable circumstances and situations, and I thought about how there are people all over the world, like you and me, who would love to help the less fortunate if we had the means to do so, and the fact that there are millionaires and billionaires in this world who have the means to do so but have no desire to help.

    Your comment also brought to mind a passage I read in a book titled, “Storm Warning” (by Billy Graham), and I want to share it with all:

    “There has never been a time in history when so many storms have come together as they have in our lifetime. The continent of Africa is devasted by turmoil, famine, and every kind of disease. South America has been in political and social chaos. Europe has gone through a time of enormous change and uncertainty, and war rages throughout the Middle East.
    In America, we see continued racial division, homelessness, crime, physical and sexual abuse, and the disintegration of the traditional family. And these storms are further complicated by plagues of many kinds, including AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases. Alcoholism, drug addiction, pornography, and other dangerous behaviors are eating away at society. All of these are combined with earthquakes, physical storms, and natural disasters of many kinds across the land. But Jesus said these are merely warnings of things yet to come—the beginning of sorrows.
    Jesus warned that in the end times, the price of believing in Him would be high. Mockery, laughter, persecution, even death would be common, but many would refuse to pay such a price to follow Christ. To the faithful He declared, “They will deliver you up to tribulation and kill you, and you will be hated by all nations for My name’s sake. And then many will be offended, will betray one another, and will hate one another. Then many false prophets will rise up and deceive many. And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold. But he who endures to the end shall be saved”” (Matthew 24:9-13, NKJV).

    “What matters” is that, as children of God, we can depend on the promises of our Father; if we trust in Him and lean not to our own understanding of all that’s happening in the world, and if we acknowledge Him in all of our ways, He will direct our path.

    Sunny and very hot in Texas today (99 degrees right now).

    Love to all,
    Regina

  18. bubbles says:

    saled, the workshop was good. It dealt mainly with 15 facts that are difficult and triangulation of these facts. It helps some for some students. I just don’t know exactly how to help some.

    You are so right. What I have learned is to speak plainly and clearly. When we believe the listener hears what we are saying, many times they are not.
    Then it can be too late and cause irrepairable damage and leave us alone.

  19. branch says:

    What really matters is that people are dying from famine in the Horn of Africa. Children dying in their mother’s arms as they walk endless miles searching for food and water. God promises abundant blessings and does not want us to ignore those that are suffering.

  20. foreverblessed says:

    What really matters is that we totally trust GOd, and lean not on our own understanding. Thanks Regina for posting Billy Graham’s article on the disaster around us. Lately in our church there came a word that dark times would come, that we rely on God for everything.

    Steve, where are you? Was looking forward on some more discussion here and there on science, to see how great God is in everything around us that is seen in matter. Really liked the phrase: does matter matter?
    Looking at matter studying it, will bring us closer to God, standing in awe of Him. He made the world and everything that is in it. He created the earth out of chaos, Genesis 1:1-3, will He not do this again, recreate the earth out of the chaos it is in.
    Yes He will,
    and He starts with the family of God, 1 Peter 4:17.

    “There must be a certain root-faith and Me, or you could not trust yourself to perfect surrender to Me. But there must come to those who walk all the way with Me, a yielding of their wills and lives wholly to Me, ..” God at eventide, by twolisteners July 2.

  21. foreverblessed says:

    Steve, hang in there, I have a post for you in two topics ago, the waters of relationship.
    Pooh, hang in there too, sister. Weren´t you saying a while ago you would write less… WHO told you that..
    sorry, the type writer does not give the right points, questionmark etc.
    God bless you all, this new morning, with His resurrection Life! That matters

  22. BruceC says:

    Regina,

    I can tell you are a sister of great compassion for people; their needs and salvation.
    Almosy every time I read the following Scripture my eyes well up with tears. Although we are not wealthy it does not matter to Him. What matters is that we do what we can.

    Matthew 25:34-46
    King James Version (KJV)

    34Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:

    35For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:

    36Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.

    37Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?

    38When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?

    39Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?

    40And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

    41Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:

    42For I was an hungred, and ye gave me no meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me no drink:

    43I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not.

    44Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee?

    45Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me.

    46And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.

    May God richly bless all those here; so that we may richly bless others and thereby glorify our Lord.

    Bruce
    Soli Deo Gloria!

  23. joy123 says:

    Greetings Mart and to the body of Christ, In seeing what matters I can identify with this topic from a physical standpoint. I just had eye surgery to remove a membrane covering the retina over my right eye. The surgery was successful and my vision is improving daily. I’ve been thinking about spiritual vision as well, the vision that only the Holy Spirit can impart to us as God opens the veil to let us see His hand at work in life. Pray for spiritual eyes to redeem the time you and I have left in the gift of family, friends and those in need. Jesus, Others Self

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