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In Honor and Remembrance

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The grave of a soldier who died in the service of his country is marked today with renewed expressions of family and friends whose hearts remain broken by their loss.

In the silence, I’m reminded of the value of a person. The cumulative assets of the whole world could not equal the life of that son, brother, and friend.

On returning home I’m reminded of the words of Solomon who wrote on the meaning of life:

“A good reputation is more valuable than the most expensive perfume. In the same way, the day you die is better than the day you are born.

It is better to spend your time at funerals than at festivals. For you are going to die, and you should think about it while there is still time.

Sorrow is better than laughter, for sadness has a refining influence on us.

A wise person thinks much about death, while the fool thinks only about having a good time now” (Ecclesiastes 7:1-4).

Reading those words again on this Memorial Day is a reminder that that the veterans whose lives we remember today are still serving.  They are still reminding us that life is a  journey soon remembered, not by what was taken, but by what was given.


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  1. Motorcycleminister says:

    Happy Rememberance Day to everyone. As we know Jesus paid the ultimate sacrifice. These men and women and their families paid and continue to sacrifice their lives for us. Every day is a memorial day for these men and women. Today is a day we honor those men and women who have died for our freedom. Every day is a day we need to thank our veterans. As a licensed optician here in Florida I volunteer to go into the Veteran’s nursing home and repair glasses for our Veteran’s. Yesterday, as he sat in his wheelchair unable to lift his head I put his glasses on him and thanked him for my freedom. He said to me thank you and “How much do I owe you?”. With tears flowing from my eyes I said you paid the price for our freedom. I said, “How much do I owe you for my freedom?” For me I have been thinking that I am not able to do enough for our people who have served and who continue to serve. We should all thank our veterans and their families every day. With God’s Love, Barry

  2. Ted M. Gossard says:

    Thanks, Mart. Yes, it is at great risk and sacrifice. I take my hat off to them, even as one who tries to hold to a Christian Pacifist position. Some of the most devoted servants of Christ serve in the military, doing their job, with a heart for all. God blessing and using them. But along with them, I respect the great sacrifice of all of them.

  3. BruceC says:

    Freedom is never free; and ours was paid for in the blood and lives of those willing to go and sacrifice.
    The freedom that we have enjoyed has enabled Christians in America to openly worship our Lord and to be so generous in our support of outreach and missions to the rest of the world.
    But it also makes me ponder of the sacrifice of another Father and Son. The Father Who sent His Son for us; and the Son Who willingly shed His blood and died for our freedom. Freedom from the clutches of sin and satan; and freedom from the wrath that is to surely come upon this world. And freedom from a judgement we deserve.
    That is real freedom. For us every day is a memeorial day and day of thanks!

    BruceC
    Soli Deo Gloria!

  4. SFDBWV says:

    Barry, I am so happy for you that you are in such a direct position to help others. May I extend my thanks to you from my being both a Christian as well as an American veteran myself.

    Being both in the service and the veteran of such service places us in a group of being like brothers; we can understand a great many mutual things without having to say much about them at all.

    Here in my little world our cemetery has 143 known veterans that we honor with a little flag placed on their grave sites, our monument in our town park has over 400 names of the men and women who have and are serving from our community.

    Today as well as November 11, is the day that these men and women are openly honored, remembered and thanked. It is their day, this is their parade, and this is their time.

    So for all those past and present veterans, I salute and thank you for your sacrifice and service.

    Steve

  5. dja says:

    I’ve been away helping with my new granddaughter. I have tried to keep up reading all the posts, but I did not have time to write.

    This morning, as I am home, and there is peace and quiet (I am missing the noises of a 4 yr. old, 2 yr. old and a newborn though:-)I am thinking back again to the day my husband and I went to the VietNam Memorial in DC. We were overwhelmed by the silence and the sadness we felt in our hearts as we looked for past friends. Tears welled up in my husband’s eyes as he found his friend, Bill. Then we found Kent and Rodney, but we were sad that we couldn’t find Gaius. We remembered reading that he had been killed in action. It still bothers me that we couldn’t find him. We’ll look again the next time we are there.

    When I think about them, I think about the fact that I’m 65, and I have had a good life, but their lives ended when we were all 18. It makes me sad, but I am thankful that they fought for our country, and that I have had this good life because of their service and the service of all the men and women who have fought and are fighting for this freedom we all enjoy.

    The Lord has been so merciful to our nation, not because we deserve His mercy (we deserve His wrath), but because He is a merciful God. My prayer on this Memorial Day is that many will come to know our merciful Father and come to the only One who can give real freedom, and that being our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

    ~Della

  6. foreverblessed says:

    What is the history of this memorial day, 11 november is the end of the first world was, but what is this day?
    I do not know if it has been big news in the US, but here in the Netherlands it is a huge thing: the capture of Mladic, a warlord of Servia, former Yougoslavie.
    If soldiers are send to a warzone, it is better that everybody knows the risk, that it is better they are willing to die, (in this case our soldiers were not fighting for their own country, but for the peace in another country). Bur if they are not willing to die….

    It now appears that our soldiers were not convinced at the time who were the bad guys, the Serbs or the Bosnien muslims? (they were massacred in july 1995).
    The dutch did not protect them with their own lives.
    -They either did not know how determined the Serbs were to destroy the muslim,
    -or they did not want to risk their own lives to save them.
    It is still a trauma overhere. (Not tho think of the trauma in Bosnie, and Sarajevo, where there are so many half families, dads who are disappeared)
    (Imagine that for thousands of years people are at was with each other, how patient GOd must be with us humans.)

    Della, thank you for your prayer, I will pray this for these soldiers who did not die, and came back home with all these memories that are hard to cope with: that the mercy and love of GOd will surround them.

  7. SFDBWV says:

    Foreverblessed, if I may allow me to copy a piece out of our local newspaper that is in print this morning…

    “Elsewhere on this page you will find the names of some people who should be remembered, people who won’t be around today.”

    “One such person is Aubrey Stewart of Piedmont West Virginia, one of 11 African American soldiers who were captured, tortured and murdered by German SS troops during the Battle of the Bulge, never revealing the names of the of the people of Wereth, Belgium who had tried to help them.”

    “His grave in Belgium is tended to by towns’ people who live there, as are the graves of many other American service members in cemeteries elsewhere in Europe.”

    Though America’s Memorial Day started following our Civil War well before the 1st World War, it is a time for when we remember all of our fallen service members. Many who fell to keep people from other countries free.

    This is their day.

    Steve

  8. poohpity says:

    Yesterday I listened, for the first time, to the speech that General MacArthur gave in 1962 at the age of 82 to the cadets of West Point. He spoke for 32 minutes with nothing written in front of him. They rank this speech as high as the Gettysburg Address. “Duty, Honor and Country”. It seemed so prophetic to what is happening in our culture today regarding morals and character. If any of you have the time you will be very touched by his words. All I can say is, WOW!!!

    foreverblessed, this day was originally called “Decoration Day”. In the late 1800’s women used to decorate the graves of the Civil War when a hymn was created “Kneel where our loves are sleeping”. Then it was signed into a National Holiday in 1971 to decorate the graves of those lost in any war. The red poppy is used as a symbol of remembrance.

  9. saled says:

    Memorial Day in the U.S. was first observed near the end of our Civil War when widows and children of soldiers who died in the war began putting flowers on their graves. Shortly after the war, it was declared that May 30th would be set aside for this purpose and would be called Decoration Day. After World War I, all soldiers who died in any war were honored. In 1971, it was decided that Memorial Day (Decoration Day) would be observed on the last Monday in May, to create a three-day weekend.

    In my small Maine town, the school children helped the Historical Society members make wreaths from cedar boughs last Tuesday. This morning these were laid on the graves of all veterans interred in our cemetery after a ceremony involving an honor guard, speeches, and the playing of taps.

    My husband and I were care takers of the cemetery for 10 years, and during that time I got to know the stories of many who are buried there. The Civil War soldiers are the most memorable. The teenager who died at Cold Harbor. The father of twelve whose name is on the monument along with that of his wife, but who was actually buried at what is now Arlington. The your man who died in a southern prison on the same day his mother died back home in Maine. So many stories, and I often thought about all that they gave as I worked among their monuments.

  10. poohpity says:

    Steve we posted at the same time. Forgive me for the duplicate answers. :-)

  11. poohpity says:

    You to Sally, lol.

  12. oneg2dblu says:

    One trip to the Vietnam Wall, one trip to the Veteran’s Hospital, and you suddenly become one with your own humanity and one with your Nation, as you see before you those who have served for your Freedom.
    The Jews, for over six hundred years now, go to a wall also…but they go there to pray. However, unseen by them is this Unknown God, their “Fallen Soldier of Freedom,” but unless they come through Him, which they will not recognize as their Messiah, this Jesus Christ Our Lord, they wail at a wall of past destruction with continued disobedience and blind religious devotion, that cannot save them!
    Either of these Walls… is nothing more than an idol built by human hands. For it was also human hands, which brought the very destruction of those whose lives that were given, and taken!
    So, we do not worship any wall to get to Our God.
    We Worship our Fallen Soldier of Freedom from Sin and Death, Jesus Christ our God!
    Today, we Honor and Remember the Fallen, the tested Veteran’s, and the Our Now Serving God, who gave us Our Victory! Our Lord, Our Master, Our Saviour, our friend, and all those who have come before us… We Remember their Sacrifice as a Memorial Day!
    I also pray for those who have been given eyes to see, and for those who are blinded by their religious devotion! I pray,”Remember them, Lord!” Gary

  13. Toml5169 says:

    I cannot thank enough the men and women who have given their lives to maintain our freedom. I want to also pray for those family members left behind who will for all this life be without their husband,wife,son, daughter, grandchild or simply stated loved one. They have all sacrificed for this country and the ideals that “all men are created equal”. As a nation may we remember our faithful roots, honor all who have fought to preserve and define them and hold to the truth that ” It was for freedom Christ set us free”. May we as a country live up to and display the high calling of God and walk in a manner worthy of His calling.

  14. poohpity says:

    John 15:13; There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.

    Our military lay down their lives for people they do not even know. I really loved that last sentence you wrote, Mart,”They are still reminding us that life is a journey soon remembered, not by what was taken, but by what was given.” Giving one’s life is all anyone can give. People do not need our preaching they need our reaching out to them and we could learn a lot from the Armed Forces and their families when it comes to sacrifice.

  15. branch says:

    As I watched and listened to the Memorial Day Concert from the capital and each time I hear of a loss of life, limbs and sanity by someone serving in the armed forces, I am reminded of the evil of war and of killing other human beings. Peace at all costs should still be the mantra of the U. S. This is what the love of Jesus is really all about-peace and compassion for all people.

  16. poohpity says:

    branch, that is a discussion my older son and I have had many times. It would be nice if everyone accepted Jesus and peace was the mantra of all peoples but that is not the case until the Lord forms the New heaven and Earth. Until that time there will still be the need for the stronger to defend the weak, there will still need to be the military to defend the rights of freedom. Gee there is still so much division and argument even between believers that peace eludes us because of our humanity and sin. It is so nice to know that there are those who love God and volunteer to defend the freedoms we have in the United States and that they also defend the freedoms of peoples in other countries from oppression and crimes against humanity. So sometimes peace at all costs includes war.

  17. Jason says:

    It gives me comfort to know that if Canada ever was attacked or at war that we have friends like USA to help us. Kind of like having a big brother when you’re bullied in school. :)

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