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Turning Good News into Bad News

The Gospel of the Kingdom begins with the good news: blessed are the poor in spirit (Matt 5:2).

In other words,

We are to be envied and congratulated if we see our spiritual need of the King who teaches us how to:

  1. Admit our spiritual bankruptcy
  2. Mourn our wrongs rather than defending ourselves.
  3. Inherit the earth rather than trying to conquer it.
  4. Hunger for the kind of rightness that makes us merciful.
  5. See God with our hearts rather than with our eyes.
  6. Be peacemakers rather than warmongers.
  7. Be punished for trying to help others rather than hurt them (5:3-12).

In the process, Jesus makes it clear that if we  think we are good enough to live up to God’s standards on our own, we are fooling ourselves. (5:20-48; 6-7).

But here’s how we can turn the good news into bad news: Use the high standards of our Lord’s  Sermon on the Mount to criticize or condemn either ourselves, or others who, in the awareness of our/their failure,  have already run to him for help.

In other words, use words that are meant to humble the proud to further beat down those who are already broken.

For example, what if we selectively reach into the list of the sins Jesus mentions and use his words to create a class of “divorced” and “remarried” persons, while not creating a category for persons who have been angry without a cause, lusted in their hearts, used oaths for credibility, only loved their friends rather than their enemies etc?

PS This is an attempt to clarify a longer post which readers found confusing. If I’m making matters worse, don’t be afraid to tell me :-)…



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26 Responses to “Turning Good News into Bad News”

  1. refump says:

    “dependent” said in a post on a different topic:
    It is said that “adversity introduces us to ourselves.”
    Who do we see during that stressful handshake?
    That one hit me right where I live! I do not like that person I see. It is one thing to admit my moral bankruptcy because that is what we are suppose to do but when adversity real hits I am forced to either admit it in a real way or get mad at God & play the “why me” me card & wallow in self pity. The struggle is on. On my bus ride to work today I was thinking how this was not what I envisioned my life to be like & God said to me “but it’s what I planned for you so trust me”. Is the struggle over? No way. But I thank God I have a compassionate Lord & Savior that will never give up on me.

  2. SFDBWV says:

    I am taking the topic this morning to just be the poor in spirit, not the entire sermon on the mount?

    Or is it? As the Sermon on the Mount is a huge subject with many tentacles.

    The 11 subjects outlined could fill a library with books about each point. Each subject is spoken of throughout all of scripture.

    The trick is to be humble about ourselves while being proud and even boastful about God.
    To recognize that nothing we say or do will ever measure up to what God says and does.
    That, even though for us God became flesh and took all of our sins upon Himself, even tasting the sting of death. We are not to be concerned about ourselves.
    That in the end when it is all said and done, only God matters.

    The good news is that God is willing to do everything for our eternal benifit.
    The bad news is that we interfere with Him and try to take control away from Him.

    Without God we can do nothing.

  3. chfranke says:

    Mart,
    Just a comment about your presentation of this topic: I’m sure you wanted to come at it from a new perspective and I appreciate you always trying something new, (that’s part of why I like this blog so much) but I found this post hard to follow. If felt backwards, so when you listed the 14 items under “what Jesus says about” it was difficult to track what you were getting at. Maybe it’s just me, but I had to read it two or three times in order for it to sink in what you were getting at. In short, I think I had to work too hard to understand it. Normally, what you write is challenging but presented in an easy to read manner. I’m sure you want us to share thoughts like this with you, too.
    Chuck

  4. Mart De Haan says:

    SFDBWV and chfranke,
    Thanks for giving me a heads up that this one is confusing. Was trying to say that if we don’t understand what Jesus was doing with his Sermon on the Mount it can be used in harmful and inconsistent ways.

    Have just reposted… see if it’s getting clearer or foggier :-)…

  5. daisymarygoldr says:

    This is in response to your initial post….

    Personally for me, it is not people that turn the good news into bad news… Good news of God’s forgiving love for a sinner like me turns into bad news… whenever I love my sins more than I love God.

    When my pride is humbled, it causes untold pain. Right now I am going through a very painful phase in my life… I am miserably broken. When I am broken, it causes untold pain. Pain is for good… for without pain there is no gain… of God’s love for me.

    The pain of brokenness brings me to the realization that I have loved other things (gods) more than God. Pain does not censure me to run away from God… rather it drives me straight into His open arms… to cry out “I have sinned against you and heaven…” “For I recognize my rebellion; it haunts me day and night…Against you, and you alone, have I sinned” “Whom do I have in heaven but you?”

    The Law is good for me… a sinner who hates my sins. It causes me no harm… it only drives me into the safety of His arms. The false things of this world cause me harm… they steal my joys and they leave me naked and destitute.

    God’s Law protects me from all that is harmful… it breaks my pride and restores back to me… the joy of my salvation. May I be always surrounded with those who consistently teach me to obey… and return to God (Ps 51:12) … those who faithfully remind me of the Good news — that God loves me!

  6. poohpity says:

    I got it!! I think!! I guess it would be easier to look at who and where someone else is compared to the scripture than where I lie in it all. You know it is easier to look at someone else because they are right in front of my face while I can not see myself because I do not stand in a mirror all day. On the other hand if I am considering my motives and actions I am able to recognize how very much I need the forgiveness of my savior.

    I have run into this problem with my older son who constantly looks at what everyone is doing wrong and not what he is doing. Of course I believe it is my fourth person of the trinity responsibility to try and point out to him what he is doing only for it to backfire in my face. Then the Lord tells me “I can handle this”. Obviously if I could have been the one to point out his sins then I would be his conscience, “not”.

    I think this is another lesson in which sins are worse than another and how can I identify them in someone else. Excellent topic Mart or should I say Jesus for teaching us and Matthew for jotting it down.

  7. pegramsdell says:

    ???? I have no idea ???? But, thanks anyway. :)

  8. mtman says:

    I’m not sure I get it either. One thing I have noted in many of these topics is that responses are all over the place.
    When I was in college I wrote a paper on children being taught how not to see. How we are taught from the youngest age not to really see. Example: A first grader is given crayons and paper and told to draw something. He looks out the window and see’s a tree with a bird in it. He draws a lolly pop tree and a bird about half the size of the tree. That is exactly what he sees because he is looking at the bird and not so much at the tree. The teacher comes along and tells him that is all wrong and the bird is not that big; but small, so then he draws it small so you can’t tell what it is anymore. The teacher takes away the child like wonder of his seeing the bird.
    The creativity and experience is taken away from him and he draws what is someone else’s reality. He then looks at it from the adult perspective and not a child’s wonder.
    He is actually being taught not to see, or maybe more accurately see my way.
    That kind of reminds me of the posts to this blog. We respond with what we have been taught to see, and we have lost that wonder and awe of a bird that is too big. Sometimes we are all over the place and seem lost. Maybe we need to reconnect to our childlike creativity and wonder to really see again.
    Isn’t that what the sermon on the mount was about – to see a Godly life with childlike trust? Just my thoughts

  9. saled says:

    The high standards of the Sermon on the Mount often led me to condemn myself, and I was haunted by Matthew 7:13 + 14 where Jesus speaks of the wide gate that leads to destruction and the narrow gate that leads to life and few there be that find it. I knew I wasn’t one of the few; I’m one of the many. I needed redeeming, rebirth, and maybe that is what it means to be poor in spirit. Somehow He’s worked a miracle and included me.

    Mtman, your comment yesterday about standing on the mountain top being a close to God experience was right on. 6500 feet high somehow gives me a sense of eternity that is both awesome and sobering. I can just imagine what 9000 ft must be like.

  10. Loretta Beavis says:

    I experienced the bad news about the good news in the different religious groups/churches I passed through in my life. Sundays were dreaded because of not being able to defend myself against my wrongs rather than learning how to mourn that. I always felt on trial. Even in the huggy, smiley, handshake churches.

    No teaching about admitting spiritual bankruptcy and learning to recognize God’s redemption through Jesus. Lots of reminders for those of us with our sins sort of in plain sight-getting beaten down with the good news by others whose sins were inside and invisible, so one thinks they are sin-less. Easy to know the divorced people, the “unfaithful” (why weren’t you here last Sunday?) the “single” parents, and don’t tell how many “times I’ve been married”…but NOT simple to know the adulterers, idolators, tax cheaters, lied on the “application”-ers…the in-side sin, sort of in the heart. Instead of mercy for cries for help, there is isolation.

    I’ve had to learn to apply #s 2, 4, and 5 to be able to let the good news be good news. I know I still fall short; but, I’m getting better at listening for the Holy Spirit before I start sermonizing to someone else.

    I think this is what contributes to the disillusionment of too many people about “going to church.” The further beating down of the already broken who came on Sundays to see God. Congregations treat you one way on the inside of the sanctuary and another outside the doors.

    Also why I think what contributed to words like “righteous” and “holy” becoming derogatory instead of honorable terms.

    Seems like a lot of the bloggers are blessed with spiritually stable hearts, who see God with their hearts and not their eyes, and read the Bible, by the way they respond. I’m very glad about that! But so many Americans (where I live) are very lost, like I was, despite the availability of “church” in this country. For that, I am sad.

    This blog is a blessing– to be able to discuss our faith openly.

  11. Mart De Haan says:

    LB, while not wishing your pain on others, the truth is that countless others share a similar pain. Thank you for expressing so well what I was trying to say. Was going to try one more time to clarify this a.m. but you have done it better than I ever could have.

  12. Mart De Haan says:

    poohpity and daisymarygoldr, you have expressed so well where we all stand before such a high and wonderful law/standard/measure– desperately in need of the daily and moment by moment mercy of our God for sins that we/and our God alone (primarily :-) :-( are aware of.

  13. Mart De Haan says:

    saled and refump you have tasted the mercy we all need.

    SFDBWV and chfranke, thanks again for your honesty

    pegramsdell, sure appreciate your good spirit. Hope the help others have given to clarifying this helps.

  14. Mart De Haan says:

    mtman, in our shared “religion” all too many of us have experienced what you describe– we have learned from one another how not to “see”/be honest about our “more accepted sins–while keeping the focus on other repentant or non-repentant persons who wear the stigma of a sin we use (probably unintentionally)to feel better about ourselves.

  15. mtman says:

    Mart: Thank you for your comment and agreement. I think we need to re-learn how not to see the worldly way and fully learn to really see from the way our Lord taught us. From my experience that is a long and difficult road. Some of what we have been taught by others is good, and some is not that good. “So come Holy Spirit, enlighten our hearts and minds. Inspire us to read the bible with new eye’s to see. Help us discern what is the true word and not human motivated”.
    It is easier to learn a new than to unlearn and then learn all over again. It is also a scary proposition because we want to hang on tightly to faulty learning we feel comfortable with.
    We do have to be so very careful what we impart to others that it is true and correct according to scripture. Our life experiences can be learning tools but our interpetation should not be based upon religion dogma but on what the Holy Spirit reveals to us in scripture. Easily said, hard to achieve.
    Loretta: your post was able to articulate what I have attempted in many prior posts but failed to achieve. Well said.

  16. SFDBWV says:

    I am sensing Mart that you are wanting to further this discussion. The making of your subject intentions clearer has helped me ( I think ) see the direction you are wanting to take….So here goes.

    It is always wrong to use the Word of God as a weapon to hurt another person intentionaly. We must use the Word to help open the eyes of another. But it must not be in a mean spirited attitude. Meant to demoralize or slander another. Love must be our motive and lead the way.

    Pride, or self, is the basis of all sin. If we feel that somehow we are superior to another we have fallen into the trap of self important pride. If we then are so small minded as to use what ever knowledge we posses to make another feel small or not as “spiritual”, we have fallen into a deeper position of sin.

    I have found in life as I become confident, I no longer need to prove anything, not to myself or to another. Confidence isn’t arrogance, unless is presented as such.

    Since we understand that any sin is still sin, and that all of us are guilty of sin. We have no right to point at another and accuse on the grounds that we, are clear and clean. And so stand on a higher moral ground.

    I see that this subject is difficult for me to express. So I will part with this last thought.

    We can do nothing without Christ, everything we do should point to Christ. We must love oneanother enough to accept oneanother, warts and all.

  17. paulruppert says:

    I liked the article. Being a police officer and dealing with all kinds including myself, I see that the so called righteous tend to think they see the whole picture of life and tend to their interpretation of what they think they know and understand on others who they see as the sinner instead of understanding that the only person who was without sin was Jesus Himself. The most difficult task we will every have in this life understands another human being that includes ourselves. I like this article because it made me think not of other’s misgivings, but my own. In that sense, I then can see others I deal with including family with a heart of forgiveness and an attempt to understand.

  18. daisymarygoldr says:

    I am thankful for all the meaningful conversations we had here in the past couple of weeks… except for the abortion topic… I’m really missing BruceC… you and your wife are in my thoughts.

    Agree that those who lusted in their hearts are equally sinful to the divorced or remarried (except in case of adultery)… that we should not use the high standards of the Lord’s Sermon on the Mount to criticize or condemn those who are aware of their failure and have already run to Him for help…. that we should not use words meant to humble the proud to further beat those who are already broken… causing them more pain.

    However, what is my Christ-like response when I am subjected to such a treatment by others in church? When people use words to add pain to my pain…it does hurt… but I am called to forgive. Since I am forgiven much by my Lord, I am required to forgive my accusers in church…. that is exactly what it means to love my enemies… i.e. to love those who do not love me.

    Showing Christ-like love to those who do not love me is not easy… For me, the trick is to recognize that it is God who is using people… Knowing how arrogant my heart can be… sometimes it takes words to further beat down my half-broken stubbornness… to finally send me back to obedience.

    Must admit that in my spiritual short-sightedness I get easily angered with people and get bitter when people in church hurt me… but I am careful never to criticize or condemn God’s anointed. Although, the devil deceives me into thinking that withholding the truth is love… I know that love will always seek the supreme best of others… “An open rebuke is better than hidden love! Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy” (Prov 27:5-6)

    The Church is the salt of the earth… and sometimes her words of good news will surely sting the open wounds of blatant and unrepentant sins in the body. I believe that what my flesh perceives as bad news is actually good news of God’s Holy Spirit purifying me… hence, my focus is not people who are beating me down… rather my eyes remain focused on Jesus and His forgiving love that is telling me to “go and sin no more”.

  19. sjd says:

    I guess if we are creating lists, there is something wrong.

    The Beatitudes to me have been a reflection of what the New Creation is to look like. Not so much want I strive for, but see in my life as I walk with Christ. If my life does not have evidence of those things, and the fruit of the Spirit is not being seen in me, then I must be depending on the flesh, rather than the Spirit. For my new heart desires God and His ways.

    For me, not to share Scripture that reveals our lack of dependence on the Spirit, then that is a lack of love. (We grieve the Spirit when we don’t live by faith as new creatures.) I agree with Daisy, the Church is the salt of the earth. I pray that we don’t get bottled up.

    It seems the older I get, the less finger pointing occurs, as I recognize His mercy and grace in my life. I long for people to admonish me if they see me drifting. And with this “wooden head” of mine, I still seem to do some drifting. At least I am still on top of the water.:)

  20. HEY REV says:

    Hello all. I’m not going to make any comments as I see that I will have to reread all the blog’s given. There was much to dig into.
    I sometimes wonder how far our conversation would have gone if all of us were sitting in a large room and circle with pens and tablets in hand. After all is done we turn our notes in and one of us would have to break down what was really said between all of us and give it to you Mart.
    Now my question to you is:
    WHAT DO YOU THINK IT WOULD SAY (you don’t have to respond to this just think)
    Bottom line this one was a deeper than some of the others, but still very,deep thoughts.
    God Bless.
    Rev. Ron

  21. mtman says:

    HEY REV: That is strange that you posted that because I had thought the very same thing. Only I was thinking how many sit right next to the same folks week after week at church and don’t ever share any of the things that are posted here.
    Also that I have discovered that it is not wise to eat toast with marmalade on it while typing. I now have a rather sticky keyboard. Everyone have a great day.

  22. wretch-like-me says:

    God Bless You All:
    I have been following this and other similar sources for some time and want to share with you a couple of statements that deeply impacted me.

    “Being Right… And Rude… Is Wrong!”

    “Always dip your Arrows of Truth in Honey.”

  23. poohpity says:

    What I love about the beatitudes is they are not a list of do not’s but a list of do’s. The attitudes that transform a life and make it great to BE around people that have them. Our attitudes will be a reflection of what we truly believe. Those attitudes will be seen in our behavior and actions.

  24. bubbles says:

    One thing I’ve been learning as I get older is that we are what we are by God’s grace and mercy. Anyone, at any time could find themselves in cirmcumstances that are difficult. One single minute could render us homeless or in a dire situation we could never have imagined ourselves in the minute before.

    It’s important to remember that when being with people. They are people that Jesus loved and died for, and when they are thought of that way, it’s easy to see them, and not the outward sin that some may look down upon.

  25. pegramsdell says:

    mtmn, thanks for the tip on the toast and jelly thing. good advice…..lol

  26. tompwarner says:

    In The Divine Conspiracy, author Dallas Willard comes up with a different way of interpreting the first two beatitudes. Usually we think of those two as some sort of mental/spiritual attitude that qualifies us for God’s blessing, i.e., if we can only
    1 Admit our spiritual bankruptcy, and
    2 Mourn our wrongs rather than defending ourselves, we will qualify for the blessings listed.
    Alternatively, Willard suggests that Jesus was announcing a present kingdom reality that had begun to break into the lives of people who were hearing him, and that EVEN THOUGH they were spiritually bankrupt (whether they acknowledged that or not) and were experiencing sorrow about the way life was going (not necessarily mourning about their sins), God’s spiritual reign and his comfort were breaking into their lives, in the presence of Jesus the King.

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